Being UNEMPLOYED!
By juliegalano
@juliegalano (71)
Philippines
November 27, 2011 7:40pm CST
For quiet sometime I have not been employed, it's not that easy I felt that I can't even buy the things I needed without asking money from my parents. It's not a cool feeling that even you have graduated and successfully passed the board exam still not enough for you to be hired. I can't help to think sometimes why is this so happening, I wanted to at least repay my parents for their hardwork on sending me to school.
I've think sometime that I guess it might be more better if I just fail the exam, then everyone would not bother to expect something more from me. There was this guilt in me when I've thought of that learning that others do want to be on my situation when I have pass the exam. But moreover I've come to realize that certain things do happen for some reasons. I have been so sad and so happy thinking over those things that I have come thru, and now I just have to let it be for the meantime, work and be bored sometime in working so as I was before not work and be bored off not working sometime..
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11 responses
@juliegalano (71)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Wow, that's great to hear from you. It is somewhat inspiring of you. Thanks for the advise. Good luck and God Bless. Hope great things would come inyour way..
@juliegalano (71)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Wow, that's great to hear from you. It is somewhat inspiring of you. Thanks for the advise. Good luck and God Bless. Hope great things would come inyour way..
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
28 Nov 11
Getting a job is difficult but when we find one we have to try to keep it, I think is good what you are try to give back to your parents a portion of what they gave you, it doesn't matter if the job make get bored just keep trying and give your best always.
@juliegalano (71)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Your right Rosa, it is really difficult. I am planning to stick with what I have now guess, I will try harder. I wouldn't say that I would not be bored , but I will keep on trying not mind being bored. I just need to set my mind that I need this job and I need tto love it... Thanks dear...
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Life being an unemployed individual is so so so hard. It is so frustrating to see busy people moving around to catch for their early time in. Ive been unemployed for more than a month now and Im still searching. I have found jobs actually. They keep calling me but I am so hesitant. The work is tooo far from here and I dont want to dive in there and go back home when I realize that I cant work away from my family. I dont want to waste an option when those kind of jobs are the only jobs that I can have when everything else are gone.
Dont be sad. We can find jobs in the future, Just take every passing day lighter.
@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Don't give up!
If you are persistent and is willing to work, you will surely get a job. Try doing some part time jobs first so as you have the funds to buy your needs. It is hard if you still rely to your parents even though you already have graduated. It is an ego shattering experience. Just focus on finding the right job for and concentrate on improving yourself making you desirable to employers. Bat far better to do is to think of a business or something that can create passive income for you. If you can do this, this is so much better than working for a company. I say good luck to you and may you find what you have been trying to look for!
If you are persistent and is willing to work, you will surely get a job. Try doing some part time jobs first so as you have the funds to buy your needs. It is hard if you still rely to your parents even though you already have graduated. It is an ego shattering experience. Just focus on finding the right job for and concentrate on improving yourself making you desirable to employers. Bat far better to do is to think of a business or something that can create passive income for you. If you can do this, this is so much better than working for a company. I say good luck to you and may you find what you have been trying to look for!
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Well, you should to do your best of finding a job i know there is a good job awaits you, don't be desperate by finding a job, keep up the good work.
@leon923940426 (480)
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28 Nov 11
I do not know what is wrong with you . But I can understand what you talk about everyone expect sth from you . Yes , you are under pressure , but in other hand , it is also mean you are a great people . So ,What you should take is your confidence and goto work , overcome the difficults and become a successful person .
You know , you will feel desperation if people always disappoint on you .
So ,cheer up ,my friend and do something great !!! God bless you .
@juliegalano (71)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Thank You friend, as of now, I am a volunteer Nurse in one of the Hospital's here in butuan.. I just felt bored again because this is the second hospital that I work as volunteer. But I still feel great sometime because I have gain new learnings in the institution that I am with presently. It's just maybe because up to the present I am still relying on parents but I am trying hard to think on it in a positive way.
Thanks again for cheering me up.. God bless u too..
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Being unemployed is boring,unless you run your own business.
I am also unemployed for quiet sometime now and do part time jobs.
i also have a small business enough to compensate our needs.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
For me, I both experience being employed and being unemployed. It was easy for me to find a job and also easy for me to loose the job after several years. It's really a cool feeling when you have your own money and you are able to help your family with your earnings. However, sometimes problems and issues would come out at work and I have to leave the job and hope that there will be better opportunities somewhere. I am thankful I was able to find online jobs that have really helped me to survive.
Its better if you don't loose hope, just keep on searching and praying for opportunities to come your way.
@dellessimon45 (710)
• United States
28 Nov 11
Being unemployed sucks and I have been for some time as well!
I hate the feeling of not being able to buy things in the market or not being able to hang out with friends to the fullest because I have financial constraints. I'm not really looking for a job either because I'm still living with relatives, so I'm attempting to boost my online earnings and so far it hasn't really helped but I'm determined.
I hope that one day, when I move off to college, that these online earnings I'm working for now will provide me with daily funds so that I can eat, pay for gas, and do other things around the campus!
@amybaby (17)
• China
28 Nov 11
I understand your situation.I quit jobs for three times this year.Every time when i was out of job,my parents were more anxious than me. We are not rich,my parents worked hard for my tuition fees. Now i graduated i wanted to earn much money to return my parents.Dont be too stressed,just believe in yourself. You will find a good job one day.
