This is the continuation of 'Long Distance Love' issue...
By KentMaureen
@KentMaureen (15)
Philippines
November 27, 2011 8:27pm CST
Hello again MyLotters!
I am back and I'm going to post a continuation story of my previous post. If you have not read about it, you may do so. Just find my post about 'I Need Your Insights and Opinions About a Long Distance Love Issue'.
So back with the story,
This girl, who hopes that someday she and her bf will finally be together, finally broke her heart out. It was a very sad event of her life because the guy finally broke up with her. The guy said that their relationship couldn't really be possible. The girl asked why when they are still in love with each other. He said that he couldn't afford to have the girl leave her family just for the reason that she has chosen him. The family of the girl was also telling her that they feel the boy isn't the right guy for her. Of course, I dunno If it was a right decision for the girl to tell her bf about what her family thinks about him... but because of this, the bf decided to stop their relationship. The boy also told her that since he is the eldest of the family, his family wants him to get married soon. And he added that if marries a girl that he doesn't love, it won't matter because there have been instances of 'arranged marriage' that even without love, the couple still did have some kids.
I personally think that when you love someone, even if the family doesn't like you... you have to do anything to make them feel that you really love their son/daughter.
Anyways, the girl is still in heartbreak now...she is thinking to pursue to save money to be able to go to the country where the boy currently lives. She also told that she's willing to risk even if she later finds that the boy has already been married.
What do you think should the girl do? Should she forget about her plan and move on and find another guy?
What can you say about this long distance love issue?
I look forward to reading your responses soon. Happy MyLotting!
1 response
@thedataminer (515)
• United States
28 Nov 11
Did the girl meet the boy in person before and spend time with him? But even if the girl loves the boy and the boy isn't willing to continue the long distance relationship until they can be together then it's probably best the girl try to forget about and move on with her life. I know that when you truly love someone it can last a lifetime and you might never be able to forget about that person. But sadly you may be wasting your life away on a hopeless dream. If he won't wait for you just find another you can love and be happy with.
@KentMaureen (15)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Sadly, they weren't able to meet. For three years that they have been dating, a lot of things seemed to happen that hindered their meet. I agree with you that true love can really last a lifetime and the girl might not be able to love again. We really can't tell what lies ahead.