I feel tired, and my body felt weak.

I tried to do my best, do all I could. I'm trying to not disappoint everyone. Now I can get a little rest, and have time to log on MyLot. There are many responses in my discussion, I still have not responded.

I try to always be healthy, and not too strees with problems I had. MyLot helped me to not too stressful, and gave me the solution and the spirit.

yeah indah..you must be healthy so you can respond many your discussion..and i do hope it can reduce your anger and stress level

I rest a little, and try to finish the job. Hopefully, I can finish my work.

I hope, I can always enjoy my life.

That is correct, do it for yourself so that you will have more energy to enjoy your life well and for the coming times of your life,

Yes. Looks like I need an additional supplement. So that I can do all my responsibilities.

I do not dare say anything to my husband. I got permission to stay, I am very grateful. Therefore, I do not want to disappoint my husband.

I tried to rest, after doing one job. After a quick break, I continued my work again. I hope, I have always given health.

In my opinion if you fall sick and he doesnt understand why you got so sick, it is even worse. Do you know if you force your body to work when it is already tired, you can get slipped disc? When/if you get slipped disc you have to be bedridden for months. I have a sister in law who does this, she forces herself to do everything so she got slipped disc and got to stay in bed for a month or two. Is that worth it? Who is going to take care of you if/when you have to stay in bed being sick? Slipped disc is when one of the parts in your spine gets unhinged/disconnected. It is very painful and if you do not take care of it carefully, you can damage the spine which can cause you to not walk anymore. If you are tired get the rest you need. When you sleep it is the time your body repairs itself. Explain to your husband why you cannot finish your work for the day. Explain to him before he complains. Say bismillah, things like that. InsyaAllah everything will be okay. But you have to listen to your body and do what it tells yo to do.

Yes. I really need a break. But, I can just take a break, and continue my housework. Very tiring, but I have to do everything. Because, this has become my duty.

For us the Javanese, a wife should serve her husband, and doing the housework properly. If anyone saw, a husband doing housework, will become the talk of the neighbors, and his wife will be branded as a bad wife.

Yes. It's very difficult for me. I can only do as best I can. I will accept, any complaint addressed to me. Because, I can not solve all perfectly. I hope that the understanding of all the people around me.

Glad to hear that you are feeling somewhat better.

I am grateful, God gives me health, and can finish my housework. Now, I can have time for myself. Although, other housework, still waiting.

Well, I hope so too then. ANd hope folks are better soon so you can catch up.

Because too much to do, I became very tired. Now, I am a bit relieved. Because now I have little time for myself. But, domestic work remain, and on Friday I have to go back to keep my mother, and my job will be piling up again. I hope, my husband gave permission to me, to keep my mother again.

Maybe u should look for another help have u tired to paid a maid? She can help u very much or maybe look for your sister /daughter help

Now, I am becoming increasingly tired. Because I now live near my mother. Every day I have to take care of two houses. I am very tired now. Many work I have done, makes me not have time for myself. This month, I rarely log into MyLot, because of the work.

Yes. I had to endure, with the life I choose. I really hope, I was always given the strength, health, and patience. So, I can live this well.

Yes. You are right. I need to take vitamins, and lots of rest. But, yesterday I did not have much time to rest.

I hope, I was always given the strength, health, and patience, in everything. So, I was able to finish all my responsibilities well. And I really hope, the people around me, appreciating what I do.

I have to ask permission to my husband, if want to do something, or want to go, though to my parents' house. A wife must respect, and according to the husband. In my country, and in Asian countries, such things should be done by a wife, if it is to be regarded as a good wife.

As long as I stay at my mom's house. My husband, has been doing some housework.

A, that's good...

Yes. You are right. Homework is never completed. I am also very aware of it. As you said, I seek the house looks clean and tidy. Therefore, even though I was very tired, I still have to make the house clean and tidy.

I took a break, and continue my work. I tried to finish my work. So, my husband not too disappointing.

I tried to rest, even if only briefly. Now I can relax a little, and have the time to respond to a discussion that I made at MyLot.

Yes. You are right. As a Javanese, a woman should be devoted to his family. We are bound to tradition. And if tradition broken, we will be the talk of the neighborhood.

Usually I manage my time well. But, because now I have to take care of my mother who was ill, there is additional work for me, and I should really work harder, to divide my time properly.