Do you believe fate or how do you think fate?

China
November 28, 2011 1:11am CST
Some people believe Fate preside over man's destiny,but other people think everyone is the master of his or her own fortune.I think person should strive for their life,but the result is sucess or failure,sometimes you can't control it. Could you tell me how do you think about it?
6 responses
@waya616 (149)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
We don't just rely on things or events that will inevitably happen in the future, because we basically don't know what it is. We are still the captain of our own ship. We should live our life according to what we want and what we'd like it to be. Success and failure do come and go, we may not be able to control it but in the end you should have grown from this experiences, because from this experiences when the time comes that fate intervenes you are more than ready to face it and deal with it.
• China
6 Dec 11
According to what you said ,I think you are a reasonable person.yes,the life give us experience.But the life is so changeable that we can't deal with it sometimes
@sunli123 (538)
• China
28 Nov 11
I think we all have our own destinies, but we don't know what it is until things happen. How to say? We still try our best to follow our heart and go for our dreams, no matter what happened. Destiny should not be the excuse for those people who try to escape from the reality.
• China
6 Dec 11
Yes, we try out best to follow our heart and go for our dreams,but the process will happen very things that we can't foresee.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
6 Dec 11
Hi,i don't believe fate completely. But to tell the truth, i think sometimes you have to believe it more or less. Because there are some people who just like being cursed by others, always have bad things in their lives. And their family members also being affected badly. While there are also some others, who just like god's favourite sons, always smooth in everything they do, it seems that they can succeed with little effort and there are always somebody help them. I don't know what is really control our lives. Maybe there is something called fate, maybe it is just one's attitude and mindset.
29 Nov 11
God made us what we are and it's up to us how to make of it. If someone ie., fate, destiny even God decides for us. There would've been no Satan or anyone that betrays anyone. God will just decide for Satan not to do what he did that is very bad or decide for Eve not to listen to the serpent. God gave us the power to decide for ourselves. There might be some obstacles along the way but it'll just make us stronger.
30 Nov 11
i think both of the two views are not comrehensive.something in life you can control but something not.we should realize we can change our life through own efforts,,but sometimes you have to accept something you can't change ,,just like hail destroyed your house.but remember don't feel arrogant when you success or despair when you failed.
@imcath03 (79)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
We are free to to whatever we want to do. But let's be ready to face the consequenes of our actions. We can control it, but more over God is the One who controls our lives. I believe in God's will but not on fate.