Delusion of Love

I swear i hate that feeling. I am kinda in a situation like that now and it is sucking the life out of me. What hurts the most is that you like a person and that person likes you back too but there are some obstacles in between that won't let you two be together. It sucks. I sometimes hate falling in love. There is happiness but the sad part is quiet more i think. And i think it is really hard to not think of that person. I wake up everyday feeling like sh*t and like there's a hole in my heart. Being out with friends help though, even if it's just for sometime.

Yes, I do. I have this girl i like.. we talk a bit, but we've never met. I have that same feeling as you. I get depressed knowing she's so out of my league. Though, I've been finding ways, so at least I could like. be at that same level a her. But, It's a long shot.. so.. how to stop thinking about someone you really like..? Avoidance. That seems to work. You know, forget the person. Don't see, hear or think about him. Do something busy, find someone else. Orr, find something that make you think other wise. like, a bad characteristic he has. Nobody is perfect you know. He must have this side that you might not like. But, if you can't do that.. Try writing a small letter, and slip it in his things. I would probably do this, before forgetting or getting over someone I like.

It is so painful to experience it yourself, and then decades later to share the pain of your children going through the same, excruciating drama. And then decades later again, to offer your shoulder to a grandchild to cry on and to hear their woe and sadness. Do we have a theme here? It helps not one jot to say 'Get over it. You are not the first one to experience this' Why doesn't it help? Because this is happening to them - right now. It is of major importance. It is their heart that is under attack and they are helpless. And we are powerless to ease that pain. Comfort, support and understanding - that is all we can offer.

I have had that feeling before. Actually I am currently in that situation. It sucks! I can look at him though. I talk to him all the time. I am just not able to tell him how I feel about him because ...well....I am chicken.

There were a couple of times that I fell for a couple of guys hard. There was this one guy who I thought I really love. He was amazing. he is tall, smart, well mannered, God fearing, polite and not to mention very good looking. The problem was he have a girlfriend. I know that he really loves her and she loves him back. It is really hard. It hurts like hell but I try to look at the bright side (after a couple of days of crying over him). I will just think that at least a guy like him actually exist. It makes me hopeful that there are plenty of guys like him and someone will be for me.

Unfortunately I have felt and had this feeling multiple times. I had a crush/infatuation on this girl who was my senior for about 4 straight years. I could have talked to her and she would give me signals at first but then I ruined it. Recently, I saw this amazing girl of my kind. She was the perfect one as you would say for me. But I am too judgemental of myself. As you said, I thought she was outta my league, she looked and behaved RICH, she was very good looking and donno what not. In the end I did not even talk to her and I have been a wreck since.

Hi miss... I've not had such experience, but I was intensely in love with a lady who left me all of a sudden... I'm yet to recover fully out of it... Next time when that Prince arrives near you, stop treating him as a Prince. That treatment only makes you nervous and leads to no-communication... Look unless you talk to him, it'd not work.. Right?

For the past two weeks I have been going through this situation. I only know how bad it is. I have to say a lot to her but when she call me or text me, am absolutely blundered don't even know what sholud I say, my head head goes completely out of function. Sometimes I'll cry with so much depression. I'm it will be such desperate situation to you all.

I do have such feelings when i was younger.I thought that i can't control it and it makes me feel unreal.I feel sad that i can't reach the one i want to to see,sometimes i think it's pathetic.But now i realize that i just need to listen to god and he will conduct me to be a positive person.Have a nice day.

Sorry for that, it has not happened to me. What I know about such false beliefs is that those affected believe that they are in love with a stranger or a famous person but in real sense it is just a delusion. The other person don't care or love you at all. This in psychiatric is called erotomania and it is a problem. I suggest that if you cannot get rid of it and it bothers you, then you better seek help. It can be quite bothersome sometimes.

Oh sweety , You fall in love with some body and you said you can not reach him . I do not think so , you should take more time with him and let him know you like him . IF he is not take you as his princess , let him go . Then we can start a new one , you know ,none is perfect . So ,let it be .

Yes i've been there a lot of times , so much times that i forgot about pain and now it makes me happy to love smne knowing he's out of my league or just with someone else..