Missing Friends

hey,i want to know which kind of sutudents you taught? the junior or high school students?i think teacher is a nice job.you did't have many pressure in the first,and then you did't have much time to comminte with the coworker .beacause i think colleagues is really hard , you didn't know what they are thinking in the real.mybe Children or students are very kind.lol.are you agree with me?

don't worry lilaclady. I believe that they are all in good condition. Maybe they just stopped using it? but the fact that their webpages are no longer there is kind of suspicious. what kind of webpages are they using?

Maybe they are having a long break just like you had.. Those people may be working and have families to support, so they might not have so much time these days.. But let´s hope they will be back one day.. I had a couple of friends in the beginning that I miss, and I sometimes wonder how they are - but if I don´t know anyone who knows them, it´s not easy to find out.. Anyway, nice to have you back, lilaclady..

I am glad that you are back to Mylot. Just let you know that I am still active here:) In fact it is not easy for people to stay here for a long time, unless they do love Mylot. People come and go and it seems to be normal. Sometimes I will also miss some friends who are not active here any more. I love China

I see your information and Good for you.I am a chinese girl ,but I am not a student,cause I gradrated in this summer, and now I am working at an export company. I want to make friends with you. you are so sweet. good luck.

lilac: how many of them were your friends? Because, what I say below may be true if there were few. However, if there was a large number of them, then you may discount what follows below as inapplicable. While appreciating your concern, I would suggest not to be anxious because of other possible reasons: # Many young people may lose interest because they find it too demanding to post regularly and it may prove immensely overwhelming # They may find dealing with English language of the natives too daunting which may have caused low esteem # They may have started some other activity which affords no time or facility to post In any case, they would have done some help to people like you genuinely concerned about them by making a parting post. I would however be happy seeing you post back with any good news you receive from them.

after my long absence from here, I only have a few friends left. But it is my own fault, I was gone so long. I will probably be on less often in December as well as it is a busy month.

In view of what's been happening in the world, I understand your concern for your friends who don't seem to be posting anymore, especially the ones from China. Let's hope some of them see this discussion and come forward to put your mind at rest!

It is good to see you back. They are so many of the newbies who join in but don't have the patience to stay on longer probably their expectations are high. Those who joined mylot for making money must have been frustrated when they don't earn as much as they expected so decide to seek for better deals somewhere else. And for those who expect to learn or improve their English could have done better if they have participated actively.

I am sorry to hear that some of your friends from China are not posting. That sure makes one wonder. I don't have a ton of friends that post anymore. So that is one of the reasons I added more. I am so enjoying my new found friends. Hope you hear from yours soon. Have a nice evening. :)

Hey,lilaclady,i really hope that i could be your friend since you are so kind.I also from China and i remember when the first time i went to mylot,i thought that my goal was to improve english and people here are so nice.But gradually,i find that i love here and i have so many opportunities to know more people.Have a nice day and hope your friends are ok.Plus,i also really really love to go to Australia.It's beautiful there.

I'm sure that like a lot of people have done in the past they just got bored of MyLot and decided to move on. Also it could be that their lives just got a whole lot busier and they just don't have time for Mylot anymore. In either case I'm sure they are alright, but considering what's been going on in the world lately I can most certainly understand your concern.

I joined mylot more than 2 weeks now and I think I got addictted. I always answer to lots of discussions and I sometimes stay up until midnight. It just that I( find mylot unique that is why I can't help but return to this place to join the conversations.

I'm sure its nothing to worry about. Peoples habits change all the time... especially on the internet... perhaps they simply stopped coming online, moved locations, had a family, started a new and demanding job, went back to school etc. :) I'm sure all of them are just fine. no point in worrying about what you dont know. Have hope my dear ;)

maybe mylot is not allowed to be viewed on china. but i am not so sure about that. as i have read one chinese here talk about websites being blocked by Chinese government.

Hi friend lilaclady I too hope your friends from before are well, it would be nice if when people leave they could make the effort to make one last post. I can understand if must be hard for people who's first language is not English. Some of the words and grammar we use are not easy for students to understand. I think most do really well and I congratulate them. Perhaps we should bare in mind how difficult it must be for them and at least try and get the spellings right. Of course we also have a problem of English and American.