How to get rid of people that very stubborn in love?

well you can't you just have to keep reminding her not to wait for you you can try find her another man but if he likes her and she leaves him for you, you will feel guilty in the end and the guy may blame you too just avoid her as much as you can I know the feeling. I went through it in university and now with my future ex hubby

I think you just have to keep telling her how you feel but just in a tactful way. You don't want to be harsh or ruin your friendship. But if you aren't interested in her you can keep telling her until she gets it. Which eventually she may, perhaps sooner than you think.

I think i can explain the situation at least a bit . There are people that are true to their hearth , i as myself think that i'm one of them . I love a girl and she left me , but well i'm not only stubborn about my love , i even let her be free and not contact me . But still 5 years are passed now and i still love her , even though i see her once a year and talk with her once every couple of months . But every time i see her i feel more and more in love , and every time i miss her i really cant stop thinking about her . But i'm not going to force myself in to her life , i'm just telling her my feelings from time to time and keep it friendly at the rest . One day i will let her be happy when she finds someone for her , but for now any small chance i will not let go because i love her . Simply to tell you , if she is in true love she will never want to let go , but the best thing is not to force it for her , then it will go bad .

Find some man who like her and willing to fight for her. Then tell him to keep after her even if she said no... after she got irritated by him, tell her that is how she make you feel....

Frankly speaking, I like her. She is just so willing to fight for what she feels. It's just sad that the feeling is not mutual. If you really can't love her, just be firm with your decision. Don't sahow her any gesture that will make her think that there's a chance for the two of you to end up together. Sooner or later, she will realize that there is no tomorrow for the two of you and will be able to eventually move on.