"user friendly" person..
By audsalas
@prettyauds (257)
Philippines
November 29, 2011 6:12pm CST
I just wonder,why are there such people who uses other people for their own benefits. Getting that person's trust,then asking them things or favors,after getting what they want,they'll just ignore the person who helped them that as if they didn't knew each other. It's really so disappointing. Trusting someone you thought was real to you. sigh... Even though a "friend" did that to me just recently,and gave me those restless nights,I hope or wish,that he somehow may have think of what he did. Till now,I just keep on trying to understand my so called friend.
How about you,how do you manage when you have been a victim of such people?
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7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
They are in our group dear.
Sometimes we become a victim because we trusted them,unknowingly- they're just waiting for the right time.
Be careful and be choosy when it comes to selecting friends.
@prettyauds (257)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Hi jaiho 2009, you're very right. I was used but still I don't want to hurt that person's feelings because of what I felt with what he did to me. :( Anyway thanks for sharing..
@rebeka (364)
• Romania
30 Nov 11
Hi. It feels so heartbreaking when this happens. I used to have a "friend" in high school she always used to bring me down, she used to say that i am ugly (couldn't win a beauty contest not even i have to pay the jury) and gossip me arround, but she used to present me as her best friend. Over the years i understood that she was jelous. And now after 10 years i recieved a call from her, she wants to get back to me, to be friends again, but i don't want. I talk to her, i respond to messages maybe out for a drink but thats it. No personal detail, no personal thought, nothing to share....at some point it is frustrating beacause u have so much fun with your so called friend but then u remember "stop talking....she can't keep this for himself".
Some people are like this, they like ti live their lives through everybodyelses eyes, or they like to say nasty things about u just so they can feel better.....or maybe next time u can use him/her to say something u can not say, to launch a "gossip"....in the rest time just ignore him.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
How a manage them? I use them too. 
so that the benefits would be mutual, it's quite simple.
Don't be sad about it. A lot of people do it, you are not their only victim. Just use those 'users' as much as you can and be more aware of them. It's good to help too, be sure you are offering help willingly.
With the competitive world we are living in, other 'weaklings' resort to that method to get ahead in life, they are the parasites who can't live without others. hehe.
don't be surprised they are doing it, and don't keep thinking about them. they are not worth it, believe me, i've gone through that situation myself. just make sure you have found real friends as well, maybe one or two is enough (they are high in quality) but don't stop at the number though haha. expand and find more friends, just use them too (ask them favors so that it would feel equal when they ask favors from you as well)
I hope i made some sense. cheer up, prettyauds, when you are used that means you are strong enough and more capable than they are. 
so that the benefits would be mutual, it's quite simple.
Don't be sad about it. A lot of people do it, you are not their only victim. Just use those 'users' as much as you can and be more aware of them. It's good to help too, be sure you are offering help willingly.
With the competitive world we are living in, other 'weaklings' resort to that method to get ahead in life, they are the parasites who can't live without others. hehe.
don't be surprised they are doing it, and don't keep thinking about them. they are not worth it, believe me, i've gone through that situation myself. just make sure you have found real friends as well, maybe one or two is enough (they are high in quality) but don't stop at the number though haha. expand and find more friends, just use them too (ask them favors so that it would feel equal when they ask favors from you as well)
I hope i made some sense. cheer up, prettyauds, when you are used that means you are strong enough and more capable than they are. @jtj_hello (627)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
There are a lot and I know some. Good thing they are not my friend but they are friends of the people I know of. I actually don't wonder why anymore since its already very common. There are just people who were born not with a people heart.
