Is happy ending happens in a real life?
By audsalas
@prettyauds (258)
Philippines
November 29, 2011 6:22pm CST
I've been and seen failed relationships so many times before. And somehow I came to the point of not believing in love. Thinking that I am destined to be alone (not having a partner) in life. And came to the thought that why can't happy ending just like in the love stories or fairy tales happens. Why can't there be that love that conquers all. Lots of whys But,also have questioned myself,maybe the problem was on me. A relationship is a two way street,it's not that your partner has the fault for the failure of your relationship with him/her. Sometimes I have that pride,blaming my partner for the faults that they did. Sigh.. I really don't think that I'll be able to find that one right guy for me. Actually might have found one but it's a different story. sigh..
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22 responses
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
25 Aug 12
Hi friend, both of the couple must have a good trust and understanding to avoid a lot of problems in their life, some couples are living happily even though they have little quarrels in their family life, we must ignore the quarrels and give importance to the love and affection to lead a happy life
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
hi,
i think so,that happy ending could also happen in real life,but only few people who only have that ending.sometimes we need to learn in the past and also to experience some bad happen to us to make us more stronger only.but the ending is happy too because we benefits from it.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
We felt the same feeling at the moment. I am not sure anymore if there is really a happy ending. Once upon a time i felt happy and complete and now i don't know anymore. It was like a fairytale dream and when i woke up it was over. Really sad and i am really depressed at the moment. I am still looking and waiting for the answer because i really don't know. Its breaking my heart too much. I am sorry i supposed to give you encouragement but we are in the same situation. I felt for you.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
1 Dec 11
Don't blame on yourself. When the love comes to you, it will come to you with lots of different reason. I am also a failure in my love life, and I didn't have the courage to express myself to the ones I like. Or, I was 10 steps behind other people. Believe in yourself, and believe in love. You will find you prince charming eventually.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Yes happy ending do happen in real life, not just as big as seen on movies. But the love story and how it ends, is true. Your happy ending has not yet arrived maybe because it's still under construction somewhere :)
You just have to wait patiently and it will come.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Don't be sad.
Don't let your feelings down and stopped believing that true love will come.
Happy ending do happens in real life.
Your's is yet to come.
I stopped believing in fairy tales when my marriage failed.
But,someone teach me how life must be appreciated and how sweet life is, without someone beside me.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
For me yes if you found the man you really like then many problems would got in you don't gave up and said make divorce because if you continue tackled your married it is a happy ending then it is the gift of Jehovah God he want that attitude he is the founder of married.
@KRTWORLDWIDE (511)
• India
30 Nov 11
hi my friend,
Do not loose hope. If there is a bad thing , there is a good thing also as there are 2 sides of coin.
iam also not successful in my first marriage , Iam waiting for my divorce. Iam not loosing hope , and iam searching for my partner with good one. So do not loose hope.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
30 Nov 11
i think in modern life, happy relationship will be a rare thing, probably will extinct in the future. Why? because everybody want their happiness but they don't care others happiness. We want to be understood but we don't want to understand. We want to be free yet we want others to be responsible to us. We want everybody to care about us but we don't care about everybody...
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Nov 11
Fairy tale are partly old fashioned, partly interesting. There is a message in it, even a hidden message. For example: Cinderella.
This story is told the way that if you (as a girl) are sweet and obey you will be rewarded in te end (which is the prince). So first you live in misery and if you can deal with that you get your reward.
But you can also hear this story: once upon a time there was.. she lost everything.. had to work hard in her own house, nobody loved her.. did not belong to the group.. only friends the animals.. not invited.. wanted to go too.. not allowed... decides to go anyway. Which means: she decided to do what she wanted, to work to get something. She got rewarded because she did not just sit there and hoped for better.
She had a goal, fighted and took what she told it should be hers. And then she felt happy forever.
So if there is a happy ending depends on you. What are your goals in life? Are you willing to work for it or are you just sitting there and hoping for better?
Love will only be there if you are able to love yourself and if you are really open to see it if it's in front of you. In the end, the moment before you die, perhaps earlier you will be the one who can say if your life did end happily.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
I think there still a happy ending in life.No matter how hard life is,no matter how difficulties to encounter,problems to take,failure and heartache,I still believe that there be a happy ending as long as you love each other.Love Love Love.Happiness.Enjoy life.
@curmont (343)
• United States
30 Nov 11
True love means something different to everybody because while we all want the same basic things we are all individual and require an unique set of circumstances to find our ultimate happiness. Do not base your expectations on what you see in the movies or even in others relationships because you will often find what you envy in others would not bring you to your ultimate happiness. When you meet someone who brings you that happiness (and it will happen) don't dwell on the circumstances that surrounded the relationship or the bumps in the road instead try to focus on the moments of happiness the relationship has brought you and be thankful for the little things. We all break a few hearts along the way and we all will inevitably have our heart broken a few times too just remember this is the process we must endure to make our hearts strong yet sensitive enough to appreciate true love when we really do find it.
@roger_nautilus (335)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
There are always ups and downs in a relationship. If you're expecting for a happy ending then wake up your day dreaming. Happy ending doesn't exist in a good relationship... a great relationship doesn't have a happy ending... it just doesn't end....
@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
hello there.i know you are pretty and smart. it just so happened that the right guy has not found you yet, or it may be that you have not yet found the right guy. there are happy endings still in the world of reality. i know of some who have relationships that lasted their lifetime.just remain positive.he who thinks positively reaps positive results.cheer up my dear. there is more that life has to offer.
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
hi prettyauds, we must remember that Life is not a bed of rose. There are torns for us to realized, learn from it and grow up. By learning it means acceptance of the failures and by failures it does not mean that we are a bad person. When we fail it does not mean we didn't try but maybe it was not good enough and not the right time. Look back and check how can u make a change. Don't block yourself but keep challenging yourself to find what you've been searching for. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel and its very true - HAPPY ENDINGS happens in real life - its just that we failed to see the the kind of happiness it brings. We all see happiness as simple happiness. But the pain could turn out a certain happy events in your life if you try to look at the other side of the coin. LOVE again like you never love before. Don't be afraid to give and invest love and to be happy and contented - dont expect much in return but instead work it out.
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Don't lose hope. I still believe in destiny and there is always someone out there who will become the love of your life. I had a failed marriage but I did not give up. You may not find that special someone immediately but with patience, you will find the right one. We will never know what life has in store for you though never hope for the fairy tale. Keeping a relationship is hard work. It is like a gamble. We may win or we may lose. What matters most is your ability to give love and accept heartache when the going gets rough.