How to deal with your college friend?

China
November 29, 2011 6:46pm CST
When I am in college,have many friends. But graduated from college,especially married.We really few of connection with each other.Maybe busy,family life or any other problem.Could you tell me about how to deal with your college friend now?
6 responses
30 Nov 11
you want to keep touch with all of your college friends? it's impossible,,you should konw some of them are worth to connect ,,but some not ,if your best friend dosen't connect with you.why not do it yourself..show that you value your friendship..things that precious you treat with heart.
• China
30 Nov 11
Hello tomlawbossking,not all of them,just close friend.Less connect now.
30 Nov 11
yeah,,have you ever try to connect with them?
30 Nov 11
if you already connect with thme many times ,,but no respond,,i bet they are not the friends you should keep in touch ,, why you feel sad for somebody who don't mind you?
@lupeng (82)
• China
30 Nov 11
yeah, we are so busy everyday now.we have to work ,to earn money ,to deal with the relationship between colleagues ,and the house work if you have married. if i were you ,i will telephone with them when i have nothing to do afetr get home from the work or after eating a meal ,the way to the work. in fact , i always talk about my life with my friends on the Skype or sends emails.whenever,you are alone ,want to talk with somebody use the skype on the viedo,i will be relived.
• China
30 Nov 11
haha,yes!Good advice.
@lupeng (82)
• China
30 Nov 11
i'm very happy you reseponse me .hehe,
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
30 Nov 11
I have the same problems as you, as time went on, fewer and fewer college friends are still contacting me. But i graduated from college more than 15 years ago. At that time, the communication means were not so update as now. There were very few people using computers, to say nothing of chatting online. Well, i think, with these modern ways to contacting people, it is not a big problem to maintain connections with your friends, and there are many ways to find them out. The problem is after so long time, things have changes a lot, and sometimes even you can contact with one of the old friends, you may find you get much less to share with, and it is a really pity.
@BeetleBam (171)
• United States
30 Nov 11
Me and my best freind from college plan days to hangout that fit both of our schedules and meet somewhere. It's really not difficult to keep in touch if you are close, especially with the internet.
• China
30 Nov 11
ya,Internet is so strong.So glad to meet you.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Hello. I still keep in touch with my college and even highschool friends! :) Its a good thing that there is internet nowadays where we can stay connected and update each others life. We live miles apart and many are living in abroad now. To some who live here in my countrt, we get to meet atleast three to four times a week. I just so love my friends that I feel that we have to be connected in some way. :)
• China
30 Nov 11
Good connection with your college friends.
@jtj_hello (627)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
If you are close to them in college, don't worry. Once you see them again, it will all just be natural. Take it from my experience. I got separated from my classmate for almost 2 years and when we saw each other for the first time after that, it was like college is just yesterday. It was fun.
• China
30 Nov 11
yes jtj,you are right.