am i not the best option?

Philippines
November 29, 2011 8:00pm CST
There was a time that my boy friend cheated on me. I was so desperate to do all things just to keep him but in the end he shut me down. Lately, they broke up with his new girlfriend and he came to me begging for me to resolve our love issues. But I moved on already. Yet, there is still something left for him so I committed again. Did I make the right decision or maybe there will be regrets in the end that he might end up with someone better than me.:(
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@curmont (343)
• United States
30 Nov 11
There is a reason he was in your past and therefore a reason he should have stayed there. I do not believe in looking back when it comes to relationships instead I learn the lesson taught and move forward. The boy already has a mindset of the way he can treat you and that is not about to change, I would suggest moving forward with your life with someone new and sending him the clear message that you deserve better and are willing to go out there and get it.
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30 Nov 11
About this kind of man , I only want to say : get out of my eye!!! If you do really love me ,you will never said broke up with me . That I really believe , So ,to the girls , I have this decisions . hehhe , You should give him a slam ,I think .
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 Nov 11
for me always comes first is to listen to what people say about me. because sometimes these people come up and may deliberately seek to divide you with your girlfriend. My advice before taking any decision at your best to meet and talk straight. because there is a saying eyes watching eyes wept. success. nice day!
• Valdosta, Georgia
30 Nov 11
In my opinion you can do so much better! If he cheated on you once he will most likely do it again. I doubt that is what you actually want. There are plenty of good people out there that will treat you right. No need to waste your time with someone who wont. No one deserves to be cheated on or treated badly. By giving another chance your telling him how he treated you before was okay and theres nothing he could do to lose your love and affection. =( I hope this helped a little!
• United States
8 Jan 12
I can't say that that is a good situation because it is not I mean there is no guarantee that he won't do it again. Although u might think it is ok to try a fresh start u have to stop and wonder how much pain u want to put yourself through. All in all if he leaves u it will not be for someone better u have to value yourself more than that. If he does leave think of it as him doing u a big favor.