Kids raised by grandparent/s are likely to grow/become spoiled brat, or not?

I think it depends on the person. Any person whether it's the grandparent or the parent can spoil a child. It all depends on how they raise the child. Some parents were so harsh on their kids that if they take their grandchildren on they spoil them to the point where the kid can't do anything for themself but some keep the strict parenting. No one can really say yes or no to this because everyone is different.

Hmm, not quite sure. I've seen spoiled kids that were raised by their parents. I think issues such as being "spoiled" goes into methods of raising, whether it be the parents or grandparents. Maybe grandparents tend to be more lenient toward their grandchildren because of whatever circumstances have led them to becoming the primary parents. On a personal note, my mothers mother ended up raising two of her grandchildren. My uncle and his wife literally just dumped their kids off at my grandmothers (disregarding their responsibilities as a parent). Being who my grandmother was, she took them in w/o hesitation and raised them. Both children turned out to be kind hear-ted people, and hard workers. They each are married now and have very loving families.

Some cases kids are spoiled rotten by their grandparents sweetie. Me and mom raised my 2 nephews, we spoiled them. But we taught them values as well. Some grand parents can be very strict. You should meet mom.

i agree. i have a son which raised by my in-laws since i am working overseas. he is very spoiled up to this time. by the way he running three next year.

I don't believe that kids raised by grandparents will be spoiled brats at all. I think it is a shame these days that grandparents have to raise the children. Thats because everyone today has an extremely busy life and has no time for children. So, why did they have them in the first place? Thats the problem. I hope the children of today are able to change things in this world. Or at the very least, not get married and have children. Whats the use? Parents needs to take some responsibility here with their children. Not pawn it off on the grand parents.

I believe on that... most children who were raised by grandparents usually grow up to be a spoiled brat. But I also believe that they grow up a good person.

Of course there will be exception. In my opinion, most grand parents try to spoil the grand children. As when people grow old, they will become much more patient. And they will especially adore the grand children. And therefore, sometimes there is no principle. I still think that bringing up children is mainly the parents' responsibilities. The grand parents can give them help. However, they should not interfere much about their children and grand children. Otherwise both sides will be unhappy. I love China

Partly, I guess it has a little touch of reality amiga. My brother was with my grandmother since elem and high school but when he gets older, he stays with me and I observed that he always want to get what he want. Later I found out that grandma spoiled him on some things... So there I understand why he was acting like that..and it's because he was used to be given what he wants or he needs.

Hi jaiho: I really don't think this should be like that. People think the same in my country because grandparents usually try to give their grandchildren everything and make them happy but so does with some parents. It really depends on the character of the person who is raising the child the reason why some get spoiled and some others don't. ALVARO

Hi di when a kid was raised by grandparents, they are likely to grow/become spoiled brat ... Finally, I found the reason why I am this way

Just some of them will be so~(^^) Since there is no more small kid here, and all the children are grown up the grandparents will likely to spoiled every grandchildren they have.That is what my sister said to me why my mother dislike to scold my sister's children if they did wrong as they are the only kids here while she might scold us if we did so when we are young. But it only happen in some family. I believe that there are some grandparents who being strict with their grandchildren~(^^)

hi jai, I am not sure if I am a spoiled one but I am brat When I was young my cousin used to spoiled me a lot My parents they give me almost everything but I need to work hard on it miss yah

i think it extremely unlikely that all children brought up by their grandparents turn out to be spoilt brats, i am sure it depends enormously on the grandparents, some are probably better at bringing up children than others, a bit like parents. these beliefs develop because they are an easy way for people to understand a complicated world, an awful lot of them have no basis in reality, though some, obviously, are created because there is a tendency for what a belief says will always happens to happen quite often. but i do not believe that all children brought up by grandparents are spoilt, and i am sure you aren't jaiho.

Jai i totally agree with you..my daughter is a brat... :-) Super spoiled by my parents.But good thing about the kids who were raised by grands is that they are sweet and caring..

My dear sister jai, I think it all depends on the particular grandparents. In general grandparents can't be too strict with the children as they become so soft when they grow old and also they think they don't have 100% rights on the grand children... the saying may be true..

Dear my sister, There is some truth in the saying. I am not raised by grandparents but I enjoyed their love too. Our family was a joint family till I reached the age of 7. I still remember how they saved us from scolds from mother. My granny had taken me with her when she visit her home even there were working days for school and my mother got disturbed on this. But I enjoyed the vacation (lol). Now I realized how my mother felt in that time. She didn’t have any voice infront of her MIL.

jaihhot I just d o not think so as all. Most grandparents exert some guidance and also much love. if loving is spoiling then I will eat my hat, which I do not even have. lol. no being loved'and well cared for does not equate into growing up a spoiled brat.'spoiled brats have parents who give them stuff rather than real love thus spoiled brat.being lovingly cared for is not spoiling spoili9ng is when kids are giving things and more things in place of caring and loving..

Oh my dear Jai sis, i never been raised by my grandparents, so never know how spoiled i will be by now. But, i do always heard even from my friends that grandparents usually likes to spoil their grandchildren due to too much love in their hearts. They not sure how to use their love to take good care of the children and ended up, spoiling them. I think nowadays not only grandparents but some parents also do spoiled their children as well. The most important is, the way how the parents or grandparents educate the children.

Actually here in my country, children who was raised by Grandparents are most likely to become spoiled because they are loved so much by them. My child is a good example for this. I left her to my parents because I needed to work in thee city. But when I decided to resign and be with her, I noticed that she is a spoiled brat. I wanted to blame my mother because of this because I saw how she give all stuffs that she asked from her. But I know I don't have any rights because I was the one ho asked her to take care of my child.

Depends on the grandparents. There are the strict kind, and also the lenient kind. If raised by the lenient kind, the grandchild would most probably be spoiled