I am happy that I make mistakes and learn...
By pepai123456
@pepai123456 (879)
Philippines
November 30, 2011 5:59am CST
I am thankful that I am not perfect(I don't know if there is someone who is), unlike other people who thinks they are perfect and are better than any other person around them(yeah those egoistic "b @ s t @ r d" who think they are really awesome when they are actually not). When i make mistakes I accept it with out hesitation and i learn from it.When I commit a mistake I just remind myself that its a sign that I'm a real human capable of making slip-ups and finding a way to clean the mess.
Do you accept your mistakes?
or
You blame others?
or
You just like to ignore the mistake and move on?
14 responses
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Dec 11
Yes, I accept my mistakes. Real humans do make afew. There are many of the E B's that you discribe and we must just consider the source and be happy in the realization that KARMA will take care of them. If we let ourselves be obcessed with the E B's then we are wasting precious time when we could be enjoying life.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
Yes KARMA will hit them soon, I know we should not waste our precious times with the EB's but there are times that they can be so annoying and offensive.
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@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
30 Nov 11
I too learn from my mistakes. There are some that just don't feel that they do anything wrong. Needless to say they keep making mistakes and hurting others in the process. They always think they are right, or feel that what they do is right.
I would rather realize my mistake and learn from it, after all I am human.
Have a nice day.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
Im scared of those people they might commit something awful because they think its okay...and might hurt other people in the process... need to stay away from them...
Hvae a nice day too Mary!
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@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
1 Dec 11
I agree with you. They call those toxic relationships. They definitely are the ones to stay away from. They will take advantage of anyone they can, to get what they want. They don't care who they hurt.
Have a nice day.
@GavinKaos (272)
• United States
1 Dec 11
I admit to my mistakes. At work, I will even admit that I made a mistake to my boss, even if she doesn't ask or doesn't bring up my name in the meetings. I am human, I make mistakes. Its not worth trying to hide it, or blame someone else. As long as I learn from my mistakes, I am happy.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
your a very honesty person....=)
For me even if i don't tell it, it shows in my face...(intense and scared hahaha!)
@shibham (16977)
• India
1 Dec 11
Yes, i do and and when i do, i never regret, i just take it as a lesson so that next time i can be aware myself. here is a thought that i wish to share...
People always learn from three ways...
Viewing. evaluating, and committing mistakes.
Have a nice time.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
Thanks for your thoughts about how to approach a certain problem =)!
have a great day
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
yes, nobody is perfect, honest mistakes we make serves as lessons to learn the nest time we encounter a similar situation. Being imperfect makes living very exciting on this planet
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
Yes! people who are real, commits mistakes, laugh for no reason, says random stuffs are more fun than people who acts "PERFECT". I really don't wanna mingle with "Perfect" people I might be labeled as reject.
and some things were invented through accidents and mistakes...
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
I admit that I have made mistake once. And I am very sorry about it. From that mistake, I learned how be strong as a women when it comes to relationship. I just hate it when people especially my boyfriend point fingers at me because of that mistake that I made. But I also deserved to be respected. They should accept what is in me and my past. Nobody's perfect.
@GavinKaos (272)
• United States
1 Dec 11
I am sure there has been more then one mistake, but I'm assuming that since your boyfriend points fingers, I'm assuming the mistake your talking about is cheating (of course I could be extremely wrong, or "mistaken" lol) As long as you learned from your mistake, that is what matters most. And Most people deserve to be respected (sorry, I don't have much respect for rapists, child molesters and domestic violence.).
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
30 Nov 11
You totally described my bosses! When I make a mistake I amend it....and fess up. My bosses will even " that,......the business was given to them by her parents. Neither one of them has ever done anything else! Anyway when I mess up......I clean it up!
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
1 Dec 11
I am quite aware that I´m by far not perfect. I also know that some of my traits are not liked by some people but, on the other hand, some people´s personality don´t go well with me. I try to learn with my mistakes and feel that I´ll never become "better". I do try though. Sometimes I blame others and feel that they are partly to blame.
@bamikalipal (588)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
You are absolutely right, pepai. A person who is aware that he is not perfect has the most opportunity for personal growth and improvement. The ones who think that they are perfect would remain stagnant and stunted. They won't give themselves a chance to learn and grow mentally and emotionally. We are all human and we all make mistakes. The best thing to do is to accept our mistakes, be able to find ways to correct it, thereby growing in wisdom and becoming stronger from the experience. Blaming others is a sign of immaturity and selfishness. I admire your positive attitude, my friend. More power to you.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
The people who thinks they are perfect and full of pride will destroy and burn bridges.They will not accept any suggestion from people because they think we are just some low creatures for them.They get blind constantly and eventually will end up in an EPIC yes EPIC! fall...
@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Life would be boring if people are perfect :D If we commit mistakes and learn from them, we become wiser and more mature. I also make mistakes, unintentionally of course, I accept and learn from them afterwards and then move on. But if I dwell on them, and not move on, it would only make me miserable.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
Your exactly right usually the people who makes mistakes and accept it will end up becoming wiser and more mature on how she/he decide (don't worry they will not be boring).
@kareemadivina (1230)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
I agree.Every mistake is a learning process.I always take full responsibility on my mistakes.There's no reason for blaming anybody with the mistakes that you have done because you are the last decision maker in everything that you do.Nobody is perfect and we are all bound to commit mistake.What we can do is to try our best to please God and not everybody,we can't please everybody no matter how much we try.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
1 Dec 11
Yeah making a mistake is the way to learn. Maybe the more mistakes we make the more we learn. As long as those mistakes don't cost too much sounds like the thing to do. I have to see where the mistake was made and then I am fine to admit that I did, learn from it and then have more knowledge or growth. Why, I remember I did just that in 1997 on March 2 @ 2 pm. I'm joking!
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
i do all of them pepai,
sometimes i would be denying my mistake, sometimes i do blame others and sometimes i would just ignore that thing that i have done.
i would be denying specially when i know i have done good out of it. i hope you understand what i mean. i would weigh things like it's okay that i have done this at least this thing happened. nah, those things.
these things are i think normal for us people.
it's what we call defense mechanism.
but we should not overuse it and we should be able to accept our mistakes so that we could grow mature.