for better or for worst?
By tonette1984
@tonette1984 (54)
Philippines
December 1, 2011 1:32am CST
i'm just wondering about such lines in every wedding vows. do the bride and the groom be able to keep it after the ceremony? or it's just for that moment vow? why do others end their relationship few days only after the ceremony?
for better or for worst? is it for real?
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3 responses
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
Most of the couples who get married are sincere about their wedding vows at that moment but for some couples (actually many couples) things change when they are actually facing trials and problems with their relationship. It's easy for people to promise and say good things like "for better or worse", "i will love you forever" , "I will never change" or something like that when you are happy and overwhelmed by the love you are feeling at that moment but when they encounter problems and trials in life the feelings does change for some.
@tonette1984 (54)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
yeah, its just so sad that this is reality. sometimes others just give up without even giving a try of saving the relationship or the marraige. marraige is not just about the party's and the gowns or even the foods but rather it's about commitment.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
very well said wedding is just a ceremony, a symbol, a representation or marriage. Are you married? or planning to get married?
@tonette1984 (54)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
i'm still single. planning to get married? not soon enough. i'm still enjoying being single. commitment in marriage is something that you should think about and should never be in a hurry. how about you? are you married?
@leon923940426 (480)
•
1 Dec 11
The wedding vows is holy and people should respect that for a life . I know there are some people do not take it seriously , but still others take them as hearted . No matter what happened , It is better for us .
@tonette1984 (54)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
most people think that marriage is just something that only for the good times and when the worst comes they just simply give up. i believe that marriage is all about love and respect and it is all about forever. being with that person and sticking with that person through the happiest and worst of your life.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Dec 11
I don't think people should make vows like that, nobody knows what is ahead of them, nobody knows if they can keep that promise so I don't believe it should be made..no guarantees in life.
