Opposite gender mylotter.

So many...I used to put fictitious avatar here before and you can imagine how I get haunted by people. One sweet pm I got was from a person who asked me 'how the avatar reflect you'? I didn't want to fool others anymore with a picture of a sweet face that totally doesn't reflect the real me. So now I changed my avatar to something neutral. I know it is not only pictures that can attract or distract the opposite gender but the simplicity of words can hold breath for those who are mesmerized by what they read. Since mylot is a social site we bound to meet and find people that can sometimes trigger the adrenalin rush in us but regardless of the distance we are all only a screen away for each other and there are always entertaining incidents that grip our presence here.

there was one mylot member who was very frequent till some 7 months. Now i dont see her online,may be busy with her work.Her id was Dalia.We fought very frequently mostly because of my silly behavior.I would always find fault with her comments and she used to retort.I miss the 'big fight'

My most touching moment was when Getbiswa addressed me as ma. It felt good.

Someone in love with a mylotter?? Wow, I never heard that before. Who's that member??? Is it you brother??(^^) The negatives always happen and so the positives. Others always mistaken me but I don't think I have any conflict in knowing their gender or having conflict about their discussions. I am a good girl..you know that~(^^)

hi shiby, Uhhhmm.....maybe I am brat but I am not the kind of person who act sarcastic to others if they are good to me I don't even snob someone virtually if they are not doing anything wrong with me. have a nice day

I haven't been here long enough to know and get close to people. But i would say, recently, i met this mylotter who i think is male and he believes strongly in his ideas and confident of his knowledge on certain subjects. I think it was a strong trait, but it's also a little scary since he's prone to emotional outburst even in discussions. I'm comfortable with most mylotters, except maybe for those who try to be mean to me. Good thing i just ignore them

Hi,well, as in reality, there are both males and females online. Because of the difference of their gender, men and women have so many difference in thinking and solving problems, that is the reason men often say that women are not understandable, while women often complain that men are not to be reasoned with. For my experience in mylotting. It is ok to communicate with opposite genders in most time. Actually, i have some friends who are men, and they can give me the best answers when i have some questions. But i did met some "bad men", by saying "bad" , i mean i just can't their way of thinking and talking. One of them raise a post with the content about changing wives with others. I just could not understand why he raised so low quality post, does he just take women as things or men's belongings? It is completely an insult to all women. I don't like this kind of men.

I don't really have problems with opposite genders here at mylot. I don't think the gender is even an issue here. I believe it is not actually the gender but the character of the person which makes him or her a difficult person to deal with and that goes true both in the cyber and real world.

I have several mylotters with whom I share a friendship that goes beyond the words of a post. I have only such friend who is not a woman. He is a wonderful man from India and through him I have met his wife and I cherish the pictures of his family that he has sent me. I am starting to learn a bit about India and the only thing I can grasp is the amount of my lack of knowledge. But, thanks to him and to other indian friends, I´m trying my best.

Uhmnn...well... I haven't found my opposite gender here I am still searching and wishing to found one

Hi Mamu No Positives... No Negatives... Mylot is not an battery. It is family for me... I love all and hate none... take everything as I should... No Complaints, No Worries... No Brains... No Hearts... No Emotions... Hmmm... Learning My Lessons Regularly But yes finding me at a helpless situation unable to help a friend... is painful and I still feel concerned about a few here...

For me, it's more like being friends with them. I am not sure whether the faces I see here are their own or not. Sometimes I get into conflict too but nothing big as we made it clear we are not arguing or anything. Some even mistaken me as a guy before. Sometimes I don't correct other people when they call me a guy, I just let them think I am a guy.

Hai Shibham, I was really very confusing how to identify the gender with the mylotter present name.At the same time I think it is well and good if we know the gender we will not have the freedom for our interaction smoothly. The mylot's idea is really good.

Still now I doesn't face any conflict or misbehaves from mylotters having different genders. Here in mylot, gender doesn't play any role. What do you think ? Here in mylot I have many wonderful moments with good friends in mylot. I enjoy the time with them. What about you ?

I love opposite gender mylotters. As far as a specific memorable experience, I would have to think on that for a while. Interesting question.

hi shibham oh yes when I first started on mylot a lot of people thought hatley was a guy and I had to carefully tell them no that is just my married last name I am a Mrs. Hatley. so now i put my gender 'on my profile so people can check if they will. I had this one person who said" hi grandpa you are doing pretty well for an old geezeer and I did not know whether to laugh or cry as a geezer is a name for an older man which I still am not and its not a very polite name for an elderly man, let alone a woman. so I told him i did not like to be called grandpa as I am a woman and I am not an old geezer either. I am a woman senior citizen. we do not like names like geezer, elderly people especially elderly women dislike derogatory names for elderly people. we also have feelings as you may know.I got back the sweetest apology from this young man and told him I did really accept it and thought he was most kind too.

Well there was this one male myLotter who was doing some serious flirting with me at some point...

Hello shibham, I agree with you that relating with other people especially the opposite gender is quite hard. it can happen online and offline, but for me it would be more difficult to deal with it offline. So far, I haven't experience any conflicts or misunderstanding from any of the mylot members when it comes to gender. I just remember a post on another site, that he always thought I was a boy since my avatar is a boy, and that he just found out on the other site that I was actually a girl. I didn't mind it all because of the avatar. I just laughed on what was posted. Have a great day ahead of you and have fun mylotting!

Opposite gender in what aspect really the best interaction of life. You are right, my friend. We are here chatting and learn positive though from others

I find that on the Internet, we let our heart flood the screen. We are sometimes ourselves. This is what I see in others. We become whom we want to be behind the computer screen. For some reason we can't do that in real life. We can be attractive, witty, and other things that we might not feel comfortable being out there. I've met quite a few people on the Internet and myLot who give me warm feelings. Sadly, I had one myLot female friend who I got along with and who flirted with me. Either I let her know my ethnicity or she didn't like my writing content (I showed her a site with one of my horror stories on it), but whatever it was, she deleted me as a friend.