I am very shy by nature....

@ASHUDEEP (1774)
India
December 1, 2011 7:04am CST
hi friends .yes i am very shy by nature and don't like to talk with strangers .i think it is because of lack of confidence in me .i don't able to talk a girl and that is way i think i am not able to get due respect in the world .hi friends any suggestions to change my nature and build confidence in me .please share.
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5 responses
ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
I shy type of person too but I'm trying to be more sociable and more friendly.Only ourselves can help ourselves too.Try to be more open and approachable to others.Mingle and interact.
ASHUDEEP
@ASHUDEEP (1774)
• India
2 Dec 11
yes your advice i thing really helpful for me it is right if you are more sociable with friends you get more attention of other people and i wants this quality in me .from now i started to make new friends and talk nicely and openly with my other friends .
ohid2u
@ohid2u (145)
• Bangladesh
1 Dec 11
Since it has been a great problem,you need to solve this,i think you have to practice of talking with people who are unknown,you should have a curiosity to others that can make you rid off from unwanted shyness.
ASHUDEEP
@ASHUDEEP (1774)
• India
2 Dec 11
yes this is real method to remove my shyness talking more by people and making new friends by knowing more what is going outside my home will help me to remove shyness.and with this i also get solution of another main problem that is lack of confidence.
Nezavisima Deskata
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
1 Dec 11
very shy person but there are many such people. I think that it depends on you whether or not to shy. just be yourself and defend the positions Be what you are. Have faith in yourself. interesting. nice day!
ASHUDEEP
@ASHUDEEP (1774)
• India
2 Dec 11
thanks nezavisim i think you are right it depend upon me and i try alot of times to get out of it but not get result.i think lack of confidence in me is responsible for this .but thanks for your advice now i try again and keep faith in myself.
befrindwithme26
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
Hi,you just need to be confident and allow others to be friendly with you.. Start to be around with good people around you,allow them to entertain you or you first do it..
davaome
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
Friend, you a shy person?, well that's good because i am almost the complete opposite of you :) I guess i got my attitude from my father who apparently, can talk to anyone at any given time. But there was a time in my life that I was just like you, back then I remembered I made "girl" friends with my classmates, and all I did was "listen" to them talk. It was like an interview, because I kept giving them questions, which they replied with whole honestly. That time I knew that girls really like people that listen to them talk. And at first i couldn't reply to well but eventually I was able to share to them. I guess you just need to feel comfortable with the person or the environment that you are in. It takes time to learn it so be patient, and be in a respectful manner always. Good luck to you my friend