Sad kids for Christmas
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
United States
December 1, 2011 1:32pm CST
We are trying very hard to make this a great Christmas for our girls with everything that has happened this year they are pretty down. Our Six year old keeps asking any Santa she sees to send elves to our house so they can fix it enough for us to go home... she then says she needs no gifts this year. She will tell no one what she wants toys wise just that she wants to go home. Our home is no where near being ready to go home too though. I have gotten gifts that I think will make their morning but none of them are into it this year. I have music going, been making special Christmas treats but they only get a little excited then that's it. Now they have handled all this flooded disaster better then could be expected but I was hoping that by now we could be past this point....
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Dec 11
Sounds like you have lovely girls there, I hope they can go home soon, time seems to be going so fast these days, it won't belong befor they can go back and maybe they will look at this time as an adventure they had..I hope they have a very Merry Christmas.
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@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
Well they will certainly remember it that's for sure. I am certain when they are old ladies they will talk about all the things they did and learned... they may be carpenters by the time this is over..lol
@menzis00 (273)
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2 Dec 11
It makes me so sad to read this things, I'm so sorry for that girl. I'm a member of Red Cross so soon now we'll be going there to pack up gifts for those poor families that don't have much and live almost on streets, that's my contribution for this Christmas, I hope I'll make at least one kid smile for a bit, It would really make both me and them happy.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
Well thank you. We are very thankful for all the Red Cross has done for our family and everyone else in the area. Between food, supplies and more important a shoulder to cry on your and others help is so much appreciated!
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
6 Dec 11
we where down at the office today as I figure the least I can do is donate blood. Before I Knew what was going on paper work was filed for the Children to get Christmas gifts.. not to mention they where of coarse spoiled and walked out with snacks and coloring books as well as a cake! lol it's amazing.. I was also very happy to see a gentleman there who had worked the flood in our area in 2006. Although the damage to homes was no where near as bad then (we only had ground water in basement) our water station was destroyed and we where with out water and electric for several weeks. Any way he had been here then and when we walked in her remembered "his girls". I was very happy to see him and introduce him to our youngest and the lil darlin' (our now 6 yr old) who he spoiled so rotten and had trained to run out for food when the trucks bell went off..lol
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
2 Dec 11
Sorry to hear that...it is so much harder on the mother/father when the kids are so sad. Adults know how to deal with the problems, they don't. But seeing our little ones so upset and unhappy and all...that's a killer. All I can say it keep on doing what you are doing and hope it takes just a little bit more every time and helps them cope and understand and gives them patience. Maybe have Santa send them letters..you know....you write the letters 'from santa' and send it to Anchorage Alaska for the North Pole Alaska postmark....showing it really did come from santa. MAybe hearing it from someone else might help them some. And what you say in the letter..make acutally happen. Like have santa ask for a certain treat for them to leave him or say how proud he is of them for being patient for their home to get ready and even tho they are not in their real home, he knows where they are (state the name of the town or street) and will be sure not to miss them and iwll bring them something a little extra..."just check your christmas tree" and then you get a little small something for each one and hang it on the tree. LIke a necklace or ring, someting they can hold on to while they wait for their house to be ready.
Good luck and I hope things get better for them and you.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
It is funny that I read that this morning as we just had breakfast with Santa at the firehouse. They have been really supportive of the families flooded and we where given special ornaments to hang on the tree Christmas eve after the kids are in bed that are special gifts from Santa that they had a little "talk" about them! Inside each plastic ball is a scarf with their names on them! We the parents went to a backroom where a few of the wives had embroidery machines to put names on the scarves for us after we picked out the colors.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
3 Dec 11
Well atleast your kids are being honest with how they feel about things. Your hands are tied and there's nothing you can do to expedite the process. I think the best you can do is understand how they feel and sympathize with them that you feel the same but to find little reasons to celebrate along the way til you get back in your house.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
I have made sure that they discuss their feelings because I know it will help them even if it breaks my heart to hear it.
@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Dec 11
I think it is normal for kids to be bummed about such a thing. I am so sorry that they have to go through this. Just not fair. I hope that next year they can have a normal Christmas. Christmas is family too so I hope you are planning alot of the togetherness that kids need to feel.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
We will be with family in NJ and we are hoping to make it a big one with lots of extended family around..
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@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
3 Dec 11
I bet it is hard on the girls. I wish we could all pitch in and help you out to make it a better Christmas for your girls. I know you are doing all that you can and you are a great mom for trying so hard. I wish the government would hurry up and help out instead of taking their their sweet time getting things done.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
LOL they told us they put a rush order in on buy outs and that means paper work will start being sorted through by March! That's 6 months after the event! We did get FEMA money rather quickly but we reached the limit of grants because of how much damage there was. It is not enough to hire people to do the work or even just go out and buy the supplies. we have had to shop around for clearances and outlets to make the budget stretch enough to purchase all of the supplies. We have had some other help from people from local vocational schools and churches thankfully because we are learning via Youtube a little too often on this one!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Dec 11
ehi again something is wiping out as I write. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
I feel for the kids as its tou gh to be ousted by mom nature
in a nasy flood/ I also dp not have and have not had a home for three years. a retirement center is not a home not to me.but its
a place to stay thats not on the street, not a bit homey we have a room not a home, not an apt not a house no its no home for me.
but I will manage. and perhaps one day my son will be able to rent a two bedroom apt again and I can have a home.i am sending some Christmas prayers that you all will ha ve a su per du per christmas in spite of the flood and all.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
4 Dec 11
Well Hatley your always in my prayers, home is where your family is and I am trying hard to drill that into the girls' heads.. it doesn't seem to matter how you decorate or what you bring in though a room, a apartment just isn't home for everyone..((HUGS))