Do you know your self if you are angry to somedody?

Philippines
December 2, 2011 5:36am CST
Greetings to all mylotters, some people if they angry they still don't know what can be made to her/his friend, One of my experienced is when im so angry to my friend because she betrayers me, i dont know if i was still me when i fight her because i hate my friend being a liar, and when im tranquil or calm, i realized that i made it, i hurt my friend and i've compassion to her, so i said to my self i've really don't know my self when im angry.
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14 responses
23 Dec 11
I think it is a given that it is possible for people not to analyze what they're about to say when they're angry. It's understandable since you felt that way at that moment. And well, not all could know both sides of their personality. As for myself, I've grown up suppressing my thoughts and all so I tend to keep quiet whenever I am angry. It hurts me more, but it saves me the trouble of apologizing and all that, for what I could've said later on.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
I really have a problem with regards to handling my temper. When I'm angry, i tend to loose my temper. I get really mad and wanted to hurt the person who made me mad. I used to throw foul words towards her and curse him. After that, i got depressed because I was guilty for what I had said. I seek professional help for this problem and I was able to control my self whenever I am angry.
• Indonesia
3 Dec 11
Hi too. I have never been badly angry to someone. I just murmured or groaned. I didn't understand and found what angry did use to do to us if we were angry to our friend. If I found someone told lying to me, I prefer not speaking or talking with him or her to being their friend. I also hated people lying to me and it really hurt me as well. There is no place for liar in my heart. I was not going to be friends with a liar.
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
Yes for me i know who i am angry with and what reason..Because if am angry with no reason i am thinking that i am crazy person.. Yes i know what i am feeling to be angry with ...thank you..It is normal to have that feeling but we can control,
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
I can't control my anger. I do and say what is in my mind. I don't care about my surroundings and people around. I tried to control it but I can't. It's hard.
@khadie08 (13)
2 Dec 11
When i get mad i never get violent and irrational, i manages my self to keep silent but still i have that pout and X brows on my face which makes my friends knew that im mad..hehe.. But its better off that way than becoming violent . Well, its a matter of control. We really have that violent impulse when we're mad. It is true that we should never get into something when we are at extremes of emotions, because we can never think clearly. The emotion we feel would coinside with our thinking.. ..I do breathing exercises as my relaxation technique, and it really help to calm me down. Why don't try it! Perhaps it would work.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
A lot of us tend to do or say things when we're angry, and then when we find our composure and had calmed down, we regret those things we had done or said. I guess you're right. We may at times don't know who we are when we're mad. It's as if we have this other side, a dark side, that comes out when we're angry.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
hi, actually that feelings are really different to other feelings or emotion we have because this is uncontrollable,angry emotion will push us to do something we usually never wanted but when we calm thats the time the we realize that emotion will lead us to negative output.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
hello, Yeah, that is true when your temper gets high you cant even control it. That is why I am trying to control myself especially that I know I will be angry to something. Well, it happened to me and I really apologize to what I did because I know that I hurt her so much. When I am mad I cant control all what I am saying.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
2 Dec 11
that I like in myself when I'm angry that I am not saying the others. I just close my home and wait for me to go. at the beginning was not so and I like you hurting abused and earning the wrath of the people closest to me but I realized that not so. just a friend find the best way to apologize for so much it hurts. success. nice day!
@lupeng (82)
• China
2 Dec 11
hehe,everbody the same with you.me too. i can't stand my friend betrays me, but as the time goes on, i will relize
@heartbit (237)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
i know im angry when im not talking anymore. and that friend who betrays me would feel like he/she never exists. even if he/she talks to me, i am just going to look as if nothing happens.
• India
2 Dec 11
I have no controls on my angry. I just do what ever which is in my mind. I doesn't think about the surroundings any more. I just do what I have in my mind. My friends used to tell me to control my temper but I cannot do it. Does any one has any solution to control my temper ?
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 11
I tend to be rational at all times. when I'm angry, I will still be able to control it and make sure that I do not cause others or get myself into trouble. Unless if I really hate someone, I will show him or her what anger is.