when do you guys suggest is the good time for marriage
By suziejia
@suziejia (17)
China
December 2, 2011 7:36am CST
these days ,i have been keeping hearing from my high school and colleage schoolmates coming into marriage , and among them , is a girl ,who used to impress us by her ration and not so easily falling in love with others ,will be get married this month after several months dating started maybe this march or so .
maybe this is no big deal ,you come across a persion and then consider marriage after getting along with each other well for certain months .and the truth is we are 24 or 25 ,right age for marriage .
however ,last year ,the girl ever told me she won not consider marriage until 28 ,cas thers is career to develop ,and freedom to enjoy , and we all think it should be like this for her ,as she is this kind of dependent and rational girl , foucusing more on freedom and self-realization , having turnen down lines of boys , she is absolutely beaituful and clever , and her prospective husband is plain some how according to herself ,not hundsome or material abundant..
so maybe the right person is the key here ,however there is also some persons ,even they get the right person ,they experience for some years ,say 2-3 years before marriage , for each other to be mature enough and economic dependent enough .this is normal in china .and considered as mature action.and those flash marriage within less then one year is usually looked as impulse .
so how do you guys think is the good time for marriage ?and how about yourself ? thanks for sharing ,my happy lotters.
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@babyr0930 (31)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
For me, the best time to get married would be at the age around 25 to 30. I guess that is the best time where we can find emotional, spiritual and financial stability.
I would like to get married at the age of 27 with a right man. lols!
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@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
2 Dec 11
Well first when love hits you nothing can stop you , the longer the better and the happier ;P
Anyway back to the topic , anyone can decide when they want to marry i dont mind not marrying at all , as longs i'm with the girl i love and well you can still merry without going in to whole sharing thing after you just need to sign some stuff , and well you cant judje anyone for taking precacious for their feature and well if you are with someone forever you should not have any problem with that .
People here marry at 14-25 mostly .
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@GemmaR (8517)
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2 Dec 11
I think that far too many people rush into marriage these days, so stopping to think about it is really important in this day and age. A lot of people don't bother with marriage at all, and the whole meaning of the thing can sometimes get lost. However, I think that a couple should know that they are able to live with each other before they move in together, by spending a lot of time together. They should discuss things like how financial matters are going to work, as things like that can often cause a lot of arguments within relationships if they are not dealt with properly.
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@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
Hello there suziejia! For me it is not the time that counts when you wanted to get married. It is how well you are prepared to get married. Age is just a number and getting married is a lifetime commitment. I agree for those who wanted to get married at the age of 26 above because that is really the ideal age of getting married. I wanted to get married but not know, I wanted to follow first my dream and I have to improve myself for the better.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Dec 11
There is no right age to marriage. I got married at 21 to my husband. The right time has to do with that person an whomthey are with. The ages will be very different. Lots of people do get married between 23 and 26. But a good handful gets married a lot younger or older then that.
