how do you stop a stalker on the internet?
By mammots
@mammots (3209)
Philippines
December 2, 2011 7:58am CST
my ex boyfriend is stalking me on the net:( at my age i thought i wouldn't encounter this kind of problem...i thought this would only happen to teenagers but to my dismay its happening to me:( have you experienced being stalked by a stranger or an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend? what actions did you take to stop your stalker?
1 person likes this
9 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
What happened to me is not stalking I suppose. My ex claims that he was looking for me for many years in friendster (when it's still up) and facebook and he has found me finally on a tag of my High School class photo. He's married now and is still trying to work things out with me... Sheesh weirdo and immoral, right? I ignored him and we're not friends anymore.
I think you'd have to set your profile privately and never accept friend request from stranger. If he's talking you in your blog then I am not sure what to do.. as it's not wise to just change your domain or website.
2 people like this
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
my ex boyfriend found me on facebook too and started sending me messages through his friendster account using a different name. and same as yours he is married too. were friends and we chat regularly but he just mentions stuff that i posted on another social website and calls me by my username on that website...that's when i get confused enelym001:( how did he find out what's my username?:(
he reads my blogs too:( that's probably where he gets his info:( yes you're right ...its not wise to change domain or website....sad news for me right?:(
@buddha3 (1026)
• India
3 Dec 11
Well, it's so weird and bad of him to do this. I remember you had said he is still in touch with u and u r good friends. But now he is into this stuff!!
Best and only way is to delete him from ur list and NOT ADDING ANY STRANGER IN THE FUTURE IN ANY SITES U USE!
Some people get bliss by spoiling the peace of mind of others. Just ignore him and enjoy ur online life:)
Cheers my mammots:)
1 person likes this
@buddha3 (1026)
• India
9 Dec 11
I agree it's not easy to ignore when someone keeps haunting us like this. But there is no other way to deal with this I think. Once he has gained access to you on net and you have given some details to him yourself, it's not easy to get rid of him. Only option for you is to be away from internet:( Or maybe open a new account in that site and not add any of the old friends:(
1 person likes this
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yup ...we're good friends my buddha3 but it came to a point where in i became uncomfortable with our friendship and so i said my goodbyes but he refused to end our friendship ...he refused to let go:(
i have also deleted him but unfortunately he has not deleted my name at all:( i'll try to ignore him but it's not going to be easy:(
thanks for cheering me up my buddha3!!!
1 person likes this
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
15 Feb 12
I checked your age, he is your ex boyfriend, may be he wants you back in his life, it happens lol, i am happily married since 1966, i never had love affairs lol.
Professor 
Professor
1 person likes this
@martinscurry (19)
• India
18 Feb 12
I would suggest you to make a new boyfriend who would be stronger than your Ex so that he can get away with all the insecurities caused by ur Ex 4 u:)
1 person likes this
@martinscurry (19)
• India
19 Feb 12
I really appreciate your thought of being alone bcz u v had much headache i think :)
But probbly u wud nd sm1's support in life bcz life z nt dat simple 2 go ahead alone.
It is not about you but everybody needs. Now we are young so we are carefree but what next when we will turn ....
1 person likes this
