To the single ladies! :))
By rakenkarenne
@rakenkarenne (103)
Philippines
December 2, 2011 9:44am CST
I've come across a friend issue about her love life. That how come almost all of you set of friends have their boyfriends already and she doesn't. She tried to joke about it but I can tell she really meant it. Well, all I can say is, stop looking for the one you love or the perfect guy. If your single, focus on being a better you. Instead of looking for someone better than your ex. LOL. You know what, a better you will actually attract a better guy/girl. Right? :-)
Stay happy everyone! wink*
4 responses
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
thumbs up, raken!
yeah, besides boyfriends or girlfriends are not that necessary. i bet many would love to enjoy their single life and get to know themselves better, improve the good traits and change the bad traits. it's better because a single has more time on her self or his self. be the best person you can be and people(including your destined love) will come to you. 
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
Yes! Everyone should enjoy their being single to enjoy more their being doubled in the future :)
Do all what you want... go places you'll want to be... feel all you want to feel... grow maturely as you're young... so that when the time comes... you're ready to engage in the next level of your life, right aja?!
Happy Sunday!
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Right, Lhenni! being single is not something to be sad about, it's a time we should appreciate!!
@rakenkarenne (103)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Thanks Aja! :)
We all do have the same sentiments. Everybody passes to this stage, being single. It is just the matter of how we make use of it and enjoyed every single moment of it. It is actually the best time to know oneself in my opinion.
Stay happy you both! wink*
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
I've been a single lady *lol
Well, picking or choosing a boyfriend/girlfriend or rather a better half should not have standard. Let your mindful heart decide :)
Based on my experience, on my yougers, I set standard after I broke with my first BF. You know what happened to me following those standards?! Well, I ended up no BF for 5 years, and i'm 26 then.
Then I figured out, I want to have a family then but I have no BF, until I finally make my mindful heart decide. The rest was history :)
What I'm saying is, let it flow,.. let it show! Give your self a break, give other's a break.
And yes, you are right to say that being good also attract good vibes!
Good vibes to us mah'frend!
@rakenkarenne (103)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
HAHA! Yes we were single ladies. :) Before I had my boyfriend and you had your husband as well. But you know what regarding the last comment you've made on my "lazy date". You can still do it even with kids around. I do believe you still need to go on dates even when you have kids already so that the spark will still be there. Have some time together, just the two of you. :) That would be lovely.
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
When my mother in-law did a vacation with us for a week, we go on a date, just watched movie in a theater. Know what?! We regret that we left our children at home... that we didn't let them go with us *sigh... we watched a movie not fit to their age that's why.
We're really a "parents" that looks after their children. In our minds, we're really not at ease to left them. Not that my in-law is not a trustworthy to left them with... but we just find it selfishness uh uh! Of course, we're not! 'just a feeling *lol
Never mind... so boring hahaha!
There's still spark anyway *LOL... we just make it our way hahahaha
@rakenkarenne (103)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
Glad to know you still have the spark going on my friend! :)
You are indeed good parents for always making your kids as 1st priority.
My idea might change as well when I will be having kids on my own.
Wishing you all the best my friend! :)
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
I totally agree on this! It's better to follow the flow and not try too hard to look for a potential partner. Just enjoy life and meet new people. Learn to love yourself first and be confident. Being in a relationship feels real good but being single is not that bad too.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
that's right rake!
in fact being single gives you the freedom to explore more of yourself.
maybe questions like "why am i still single?" would be answered if we just explore ourselves more. it is in being aware with ourselves first that would make us a better person. so let this girl stop worrying about not having someone cause the right one is still on his way.
