Some girl told me to keep my hands off her boyfriend
By Aja103654
@Aja103654 (5646)
Philippines
December 3, 2011 11:26am CST
Haha 
Just now, I got a mysterious call from someone. When I looked at my phone, the number was not registered to my mobile phone book. Thinking that it was probably my boyfriend who is borrowing someone's cell phone to call me or maybe a possible employer, I accepted the call.
Girl: Hello, who is this?
Me: Umm... (shouldn't I be the one asking that?) This is -my name here-
Girl: Oh, okay, would you keep your hands off my boyfriend please?
Me: 
(wut?) huh?
Girl: you know Ruchi?
Me: I don't know anyone by that name.
Girl: Don't lie. Where do you live?
Me: Can't tell you that, I'm not supposed to diverge personal information to a stranger.
Girl: Okay, okay, I know
I gave her a non-specific address.
Girl: We both live in the same place, but where are you? be specific.
Me: (what the heck???) Can't tell you that
she sounded like she was crying.
Me: Umm... are you crying?
Girl: No. I'm not crying -fake laugh-
Me: Nah, you're voice is shaky. you are crying aren't you.
Girl: well, it's my boyfriend you see. I think he's cheating on me.
Right then, i felt sorry for the girl.
Me: It's okay, girl. You see. i don't know anyone named Ruchi and i have a boyfriend, too.
Girl: boy friend or girl friend?
me: (what a strange question!) boyfriend
She seem to be suspecting me for being her boyfriends other girl. Of course it wasn't me. I mean, the boy's number(the cell phone she used was her boyfriend's) and i don't even have his number on my cell phone. That is so weird!
Girl: Would.. could you... please delete this number. I'm sorry for disturbing you,
Me: Umm.. okay (i said as I ate a potato chip)you know i don't even need to do that, he is not even registered on my phone in the first place.
The call ended. it was so weird. I felt like laughing and a little sad for the girl. She repeated to tell me to delete the number and said sorry again. then she sent me a follow up text telling me the same instruction. so weird...
How did that guy even got my number on his cell phone? the girl said that my phone number was there in his list. I don't even know any guy with a name Ruchi. Is that even a boy's name??? or is she lesbian?? ack! what the heck is going on??
I should have told her that if she really suspects her lover, then she ought to confront her lover about it, not sneak around to use his phone and beg his mistresses to go away.
Do you girls check up on your boyfriends like this? Oh my God...
Have you ever experienced something like this before?
What can you say about this situation?
The girl was in tears, i could tell because she was sniffing(heard it over the phone)and her voice cracked a bit as she talked to me. Clearly she was very emotional about the whole thing. why do girls have to stoop like this? i hate when this happens to a girl, why can't they be more rational. she wasn't in her good senses, obviously, call a random person from your bf's phone book isn't a bright idea to stop him from cheating you know. 
Just now, I got a mysterious call from someone. When I looked at my phone, the number was not registered to my mobile phone book. Thinking that it was probably my boyfriend who is borrowing someone's cell phone to call me or maybe a possible employer, I accepted the call.
Girl: Hello, who is this?
Me: Umm... (shouldn't I be the one asking that?) This is -my name here-
Girl: Oh, okay, would you keep your hands off my boyfriend please?
Me: (wut?) huh?
Girl: you know Ruchi?
Me: I don't know anyone by that name.
Girl: Don't lie. Where do you live?
Me: Can't tell you that, I'm not supposed to diverge personal information to a stranger.
Girl: Okay, okay, I know
I gave her a non-specific address.
Girl: We both live in the same place, but where are you? be specific.
Me: (what the heck???) Can't tell you that
she sounded like she was crying.
Me: Umm... are you crying?
Girl: No. I'm not crying -fake laugh-
Me: Nah, you're voice is shaky. you are crying aren't you.
Girl: well, it's my boyfriend you see. I think he's cheating on me.
Right then, i felt sorry for the girl.
Me: It's okay, girl. You see. i don't know anyone named Ruchi and i have a boyfriend, too.
Girl: boy friend or girl friend?
me: (what a strange question!) boyfriend
She seem to be suspecting me for being her boyfriends other girl. Of course it wasn't me. I mean, the boy's number(the cell phone she used was her boyfriend's) and i don't even have his number on my cell phone. That is so weird!
Girl: Would.. could you... please delete this number. I'm sorry for disturbing you,
Me: Umm.. okay (i said as I ate a potato chip)you know i don't even need to do that, he is not even registered on my phone in the first place.
The call ended. it was so weird. I felt like laughing and a little sad for the girl. She repeated to tell me to delete the number and said sorry again. then she sent me a follow up text telling me the same instruction. so weird...
How did that guy even got my number on his cell phone? the girl said that my phone number was there in his list. I don't even know any guy with a name Ruchi. Is that even a boy's name??? or is she lesbian?? ack! what the heck is going on??
I should have told her that if she really suspects her lover, then she ought to confront her lover about it, not sneak around to use his phone and beg his mistresses to go away.
Do you girls check up on your boyfriends like this? Oh my God...
Have you ever experienced something like this before?
What can you say about this situation?
The girl was in tears, i could tell because she was sniffing(heard it over the phone)and her voice cracked a bit as she talked to me. Clearly she was very emotional about the whole thing. why do girls have to stoop like this? i hate when this happens to a girl, why can't they be more rational. she wasn't in her good senses, obviously, call a random person from your bf's phone book isn't a bright idea to stop him from cheating you know. 3 people like this
11 responses
@WildHorses (718)
• United States
31 Dec 11
I have never received a call like this one before but I have to say that before I feel sympathy for such a phone call I would get suspicious first.
I'm the type of person that will straight out ask if I suspect that a mate is playing dirty. Whether or not I get the real answer, I call bullsh*t. Don't get me wrong as she may have been honestly distraught but really it wasn't necessary to go sneaking around into his phone.
How your phone number got on there is probably really bullsh*t as well. Do you know how often people call random numbers in error and hang up? The answer is A LOT. That's probably the most likely cause. I get weird phone calls myself but just hang up right away.
@WildHorses (718)
• United States
8 Jan 12
Before I changed my phone number, I was getting calls from people asking for someone else and I would say, wrong number. "No, I got the right number. Don't play around with me." I hang up with a "f*** off."
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
31 Dec 11
Yes, the girl was desperately trying to act cool but she was in so much emotional turmoil, her voice shook as she spoke. She's using the wrong method, obviously. I wanted to tell her what to do, but I don't think I'm in a good position to tell her what to do.
haha, it happened to me once before, this guy called me. I text ed him to stop calling me and that I'm trying to get some sleep. I was curious whose number it was because the caller was not on my phone book, so I answered his first call. He must be some guy looking for a girl to have fun with. those kind of men are creepy and annoying.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Right! The boyfriend will keep cheating on her. even if she does this methods a dozen times, it won't work. you can't stop cheating this way. and she disturbed other people in process, making a fool out of herself for a guy who did not even deserve her affections. it's not even love, it's foolishness.
young girls think that their boyfriends mean the whole world to them.
something like 'take everything else, but not him!'
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
hehe, sid, that would have been cool. I wouldn't mind them playing a prank as long as they pay me. really? those cranks from friday nite cranks? i doubt it. i'm from the philippines and they don't have that show here... which is too bad.
I wouldn't mind them playing a prank as long as they pay me. really? those cranks from friday nite cranks? i doubt it. i'm from the philippines and they don't have that show here... which is too bad. @cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Obviosly, the girl has an anxiety disorder. Ugh it'd be a headache if I had a girl like that. Interestingly, you did not have a deep conversation and no problem was mentioned. The phone call was quite shallow and trivial. She hurried to end the call which means, frankly, that her problem doesn't concern you
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
it would have been a very bad conversation if i had been emotional about it. to fight with a girl who has a broken-heart, no less, would be troublesome. since i could sympathize with her, i couldn't bring myself to be mean to her.
anxiety disorder? hehe, it's possible. i know, if i were his boyfriend, she would give me a headache too. she's so crazy about her boyfriend.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
8 Dec 11
A really strange call , but girls boys all are the same :P There are people like that . I myself am a bit addictive but i dont bother my girlfriend , i'm one of those people that hate phones , i never called her over the phone when we were together with my ex . If i want to see her during some random time when she is at home i go and visit her , that was it :) You might want to know a lot but you got to keep it to yourself :)
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
You were two-timing?
Same here, it gets annoying when a GF or a BF keeps calling us, asking us what we are doing, what will we do and what have we done. did we cheat on them? then they would say, you cheated on me even without much evidence, those paranoid types LOL
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
ah, i don't think so. LOL. this phone number has been mine for 2 years or so, no ghost incidents. hehe
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Dec 11
yep dumb on her part but my daughter is so jealous of her good for nothing bf, she would probably do that to.
i mean for all she knew you could be a co worker or something he had to contact for work purposes or anything else. i guess he may have put in one number backwards or something. so look out, you may get a call from him thinking you are someone else. @Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
okay, i'll be careful.
tsk tsk, if i were a guy, i wouldn't keep a relationship with a girl like this. it would only create more problems in the future and more so when they are married. would people just get their lives and stop suspecting their partners for cheating? it will only hurt anyway, waste of time too
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
•
3 Dec 11
Someone once broke up with my answering machine, when I was living in France. I have no idea who it was, who "Yuri" was or why she thought I was him, especially after the voicemail intro said it was me (in English and French). Strangest thing to find on your phone after work.
People are really weird about cheating. Sounds like she's a teenager and therefore reacts how she sees in films rather than making any sense!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yeah, those films are a bad influence to young people. she even spoke to me in English and she wasn't doing a very good job as speaking in that language. -sigh- very uncool and shameful, she could have spared herself the pain and worry of his boyfriend cheating on her if she just broke up with him.
probably why the guy cheated, because he can't stand such a overly dramatic and jealous girlfriend.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Dec 11
Why should I check out? I have no time for that and are not interested either.
My ex always did that to me (calling me every 50 min or so.. how to drive one crazy) and calling at my work etc etc.
If my partner is cheating on me and I find out he is history. And he knows. I put those things clear from the very start. He knows I won't come over anymore and he also knows I won't call or mail or whatever him.
Perhaps the girl had the wrong number or one wrong number?
I think if people step on your soul and cheat on you there are not much people who are behaving "smart". I think it's smart of her to call.. it's less smart to cry.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Those kind of girl/boyrfriends are bothersome. always calling in to check if you are cheating or not. it's like they don't have a life of their own to think about. shouldn't they just put their faith and if they suspect cheating, they don't jump to conclusions? she should have dumped the guy immediately.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
3 Dec 11
I pity her. But if she feels she was being cheated by her partner. She should break it up. Women's instinct are usually right. She doesn't need to call anyone and put herself to shame.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yeah, she's a pity. she did not deserve it, she wasn't wise enough to prevent shaming herself and calling someone she doesn't know accusing them of things. i bet her boyfriend is not even that good looking and worth it. he's a cheater, dump him!
@ygna21 (294)
• Bulgaria
3 Dec 11
Wow poor girl.
Maybe she just got the wrong number.I guess she got it from her bf phone like she checked his phone and saw some number but didn't get it right so she called you instead of the person that her bf called?
Confusing.And unusual.
But sounds quite bizarre too.
Happy holidays! :)
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
No idea. she did not give enough information. i was happy eating my chips when suddenly she called. i only regret not asking her enough information, i would like to punch or beat up her boyfriend for being such an -------
thanks, happy holidays to you too!
