accepting the fact.....everybody will change.

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
December 4, 2011 2:51am CST
Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer.
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7 responses
• United States
8 Dec 11
Everyone will change with time, with age, etc. The type of change depends greatly on their experiances as they go through life. If someone goes through life without major difficulty they will probably not grow older with a great respect for life and what it has to offer, but someone who say loses a younger brother or sister in high school or someone who loses a spouse for example will change, their respect for life and what that is and what it has to offer will change. I call it baggage the things we carry with us that we can never put down that we carry for life it is the baggage (good and bad) that shape out personalities and make us who we are. A person will certainly change from teenage years through young adulthood then on to old age as the person goes through life based on the baggage they gather, therefore the persons viewpoint of all things around them will also change so even if a tree is still a tree it will be looked on with different eyes later in life, change is inevitble be it true change or viewpoint, except it, cherish and relish it, all change good and bad is an intregle part of your own existence
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
7 Dec 11
It is so hard isn't? I find it so sad when I see someone I love or like changed for the worst. It is really hard to pass through that, sometimes I want to get some distance not knowing how to deal with them anymore. But the right thing is accept indeed. We always change.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
we really need to accept that everything changes and it change fast. just see how fast new models of cellphones change. you will really get dizzy watching it. change has its pros and cons and it is how you accept it matters. change for the good is always the best change of course. but for me i dont really stress myself on change for that is constant. i just focus on changing for the better slowly but surely.
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
Yes you are right! Everything changes on earth because nothing is permanent. The only consolation we can get is to accept the reality. However, as you have said , it is difficult to accept reality. Truth hurts as many people say.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
Acceptance for changes is difficult especially if it's one that doesn't favor us. It's a sad fact that the truth hurts but for me, i'd rather hear the truth than all the lies. I'd rather see changes and accept them than forever be stagnant.
@Bit_Bit (12)
5 Dec 11
Yes, we all change, if we didn't we wouldn't be who we are today.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
4 Dec 11
Yes life is all about change, we can't help it ot stop it, I look at life as being swept along on a wave, or travelling down a road and coming to forks in the road and it is these forks that we make the decisions of what way to go, hopefully we make the right choices in our life but in the end we all end up in the same designation.