changeable minds of women!!
By ever_purple
@ever_purple (522)
Philippines
December 4, 2011 11:26pm CST
most of the time i always hear from men that one of their greatest complains about women is that women have changeable minds. as a woman i wont deny this because its really true. but men should understand that we cant avoid it because its women's nature to have changeable minds. i know we are really emotional towards things but we are design by God to have a soft heart caring for people we love as well as strangers. but one thing for sure even if we often change minds is that when we love a person we are firm to that. because we may have changeable minds but women does not have changeable heart...
6 responses
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
6 Dec 11
One reason men might complain is that if a woman is so focused on her right to change her mind, she may do so without taking into consideration how that will impact other people. It often does and women should be aware of that.
Other than that, feel free to change your mind as often as you like. The changing of the mind may also relate to the fact that women will sometimes say things from a certain perspective today that sounds different than what they said yesterday.
Gives men plenty to talk about!
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
7 Dec 11
Yes, I do believe that women do have stronger instincts and also that a woman's ability to change her mind can be a good thing. Women are smart and often perceptive of people and situations in a way different than a man thinks. This is why any man benefits by having a woman at his side.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
well i admit that i sometimes makes that as an alibi but honestly many times we just cant help to change our minds....and many times we change minds because of our strong instincts...i hope you would agree with me that women have stronger instincts than man....see around here in mylot..))
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
i truly agree with you...man indeed can hardly live without us women...hehehheee...h
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
12 Dec 11
They want everything thing but they wont take a start, or move forward for it or ask for it, I dont like such woman.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
well not all women are that...we might have changeable minds but like what we have said we are firm with things that involves people we love and care...
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
well i can say is that you can never avoid to change your minds...perhaps most of the time you do ypu are just unaware that you do change minds..
@li123456li (101)
• China
6 Dec 11
Hi ever,I agree with your opinion.I'm a man,I know a man's psychologic,they have changeable minds too,but less than woman in proportion.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 11
In my opinion, women tend to change their mind because they are more thoughtful and precise. They always want to make sure they did not make a wrong decision, did not get cheated by sellers. One reason for this may be that they are lack of the sense of security. That's why they tend to think about an issue again and again and again and confuse themselves in the end. Men however, does not care much about a lot of stuff, they made decision, carry it out and does not think about it that much.
About your claim that women hold firm to love and they don't have changeable heart. That may not be conclusive for all. perhaps you are. But I saw far too many women change their heart, sleep with other guys, fooled a guy's feeling, comparing their previous 10, 20 or more boyfriends to show off and stuff. Maybe in the past women were very true to guys, but that may no longer the case these days. My mom, grandma and most female friends did that.
Of course, I am by no means claim that men do not cheat in love. Some of them do. Anyway, the focus of your discussion is on changeable minds of women XD
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
well you are truly right on your points between men and women on their decision making...as a woman im really like that..hehhee...on the part when you said that not all women does have changeable heart oh well i agree with you on that. nowadays because of people being more liberated women today does not sticks with one man and so are with the guys. for me it still depend on the person regardless of the gender. but still i firmly believe that women does not easily change heart. once a woman commit her heart to the man she loves, its hard for her to replace that man even if lets say that man broke her heart badly. even there are lots of liberated women present nowadays when they fell in love truly to a man they will for sure they wont change heart easily....
@chrisding (141)
• China
5 Dec 11
Have a nice day.I agree with you but i am man.Hah.My wife will very changable mind if you let her to choose.But it is truth that she is loving me all life.That is to say what you said is women does not have changable heart.Merry Christmas and Happy new year.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
well glad to know that....have a merry Christmas and prosperous new year with you as well...=))
