Time an space Apart
By YoungTay
@YoungTay (83)
United States
December 4, 2011 11:38pm CST
I got into it with my girlfriend an her attitude has been shity so i said you know what maybe you need some time to your self at least to cool things down but i never mean it in the way that others would take it an she knows that also an normally she say no i dont care i dont want anytime or space but this time she agreed an hasn't accepted none of my calls or texts im starting to feel bad an dumb an just lost i dont know if what i did ended things or if itll mess anything up im kind of scared an confused i mean if she know i didnt mean it like dat shouldn't things still be ok??? help please =/ =( =...(
3 responses
@truejoy19 (19)
• United States
5 Dec 11
Everything should be okay. Sometimes you just have to take a break and miss each other in order to see how much you guys really miss and need each other. I love my boyfriend so much I would feel bad ignoring a call. You never know what could be going on. Talk to her. She is not a stranger. She is your girlfriend who you know and love. I hope everything is okay.
@jjzone44 (917)
• United States
5 Dec 11
How long ago did you ask for this time and space?
It may be that she is just giving you what you requested so you can experience it and decide that you don't like it.
The problem is that you won't know for sure until she talks with you.
Just give it some time and hopefully it will work out the way you want it too.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Dec 11
Sorry but what do you mean with: a normal person?
I would prefer some distance as well.
You find her attitude terrible. Well there must be a very good reason why it it. Since I assume it was not that way at day one.
So she also needs a time-out to think over why you make her that way.
Since the way we behave is a respond on the way someone else is behaving!
I think you did do the right thing.
You both should ask yourself first: what did you like/love on that other person as you just met?
Is that feeling you had still there (or are you just scared now to be left over?).
What changed that your relationship came this far?
Is there a specific situation?
Is it possible to change or to change that?
Are you willing/is it worth to work on this relationship?
Most people are afraid if a (bad| relationship is ending since you will feel kind of lost and it's better to have a very bad relationship (to many) as none (and feel happy without all the fights, annoyments and irritations which is way better for your health).