Have you ever tried to change your lifepartner's choice or thought

@ritika02 (214)
India
December 5, 2011 5:14am CST
I have listen from many persons that we will change our partner's behave or style after marriage according ourselves. Do you think it is right to try. I think it is not right or even we can not change others according ourselves because every person have their own choices and habbits and thinking towards life. If someone try to change its life partner I am sure there would create gap between their relationship. If you love your partner you must accept him or her as he is before marriage. Ritika
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4 responses
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
You can't force somebody to change for you. If that is already his or her attitude, accept it. But having a bad attitude must changed. It takes time though. Just patient with your partner.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
7 Dec 11
One thing for sure ritika, you cannot change a person for what a person has got the qualities, bad or good are his /her virtue and one lives on with them always. When it comes to living together, one can always try to motivate but attitude of a person is always a binding and he never changes, One may try ever so hard!
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Dec 11
Well I don't think it's right. Nobody is perfect and they love you for who you are and you should do the same back to the person you love and are married to or just with. Changing someone is a form of control and trying to keep it it to make yousekf happier Nd make the person your with less then a person.
@Mashnn (4501)
5 Dec 11
Those are excuses that people find inorder to stay or marry bad boys or girls. There is no way you can change someone at all. You can only try to change yourself but not others.