should we help stranger?

I think it depends on the situation and person, also the person you are. If you don't feel save or confident with it don't do it. Also there are other ways to help out. Instead of getting out of your car you can stay in and call for help. I don't think I would stop my car in the middle of the night in the middle of nowhere to help out someone. I also don't open my frontdoor late at night and as soon as it's getting dark I close my curtains so nobody can peep inside. I don't think if I help out here a fallen person that person will accuse me of something. If it comes to these kind of situations I think that will never happen. Also not because we don't have that system of accussing people of hurting or robbing you, so you have to pay them.

In Kerala people have a very good helping mentality. They serve others if they are very polite. Now a days there are large number of accidents taking place in our state. I think it's due to improper conditions of the road as well as the improper condition of the vehicle. For the last week we the people in Kerala faced a crucial accident which carried the life of a little girl. The persons who was near by the accidents served and helped the police to get the wounded person to hospital. The people itself had a taxi and took those wounded person to hospital. We the common people treat those as our own family members and we had served them. I think that we should help each and every one who is at a very difficult situation.

I think we all have to look at our desire to help with some common sense. Is the action of helping someone else’s jurisdiction? Is this a job for professionals? Should a medical trained person move a victim? Should we wait for police to arrive to assess the situation? After questions like this have been asked then we can act accordingly. If there is little or no time to ask these kinds of questions and someone is needs our help we can help like the American. Not all helping though is critical and we have time and can look at asking the person if they would like help. I think there is a balance to be found. We should not involve ourselves in other peoples business but we have a business to be part of society and not feel like we are useless. This is interesting, that you see and are asking this question, because it says something about societies in general not just in China but everywhere. Individuals can feel like they are not included in decisions or what happens in life. On the other hand with laws, courts and the ability to sue people for damages, who wants to get into trouble with someone when your intentions were only good. It is a risk.

let me guess...... you come from China ? right? i know what are you talking about......... i've heared it........ well.......... helping people is always a good thing to do ,but in China, you have to be more smart.... if we don't help , who will ? the whole society is cold if we don't help each other i know ,there are some liars but we should not run away because of them what's more, how do you feel if you could help but you don't........ why do we have to make ourselves uncomfortable...... just think about it 3 times before you try to help ,finding a way to help and not get harms