I really hope that this is just a misunderstanding
By youless
@youless (112481)
Guangzhou, China
December 5, 2011 7:45pm CST
Today I received a private message from Mylot. A mylotter wrote to me about his/her experienced about Paypal transfer. He/she sent USD95 to another Mylotter and hope this person can be helpful to it. But until now he/she can't contact this person yet. I can't believe that the person he/she seeks help is someone who is active here and he is also in my friend's list. I hope this is just a misunderstanding and hopefully they can solve this problem. If this person really can't be helpful, then he should send back this money by Paypal. Anyway, it is free of charge to do that. I will feel bad that if this person was cheated USD95 online. USD95 is a big money, but it is not worthy to lose your trust because of this money.
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15 responses
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 11
Hi!
That is really bad, we should not trust anyone over the internet since we never know what kind of person are they when especially we never meet the person, never know where the person stay, and never even know the look of the person. That mean, the person is a totally stranger to you, so, if you think rationally, will you send your money to a stranger and hope that he will help you with the money? That is something we should never do over the internet, unless you can see him physically, or else, forget about any monetary deal in person with someone. Anyway, just hope that this is just a misunderstanding.
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 11
Interesting proverbs you have there my friend. It's truly amazing how true this quotes can be when dealing with our daily live.
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@xiaomagevin (20)
• China
6 Dec 11
Well,I care,but not very much.It is not possible that everyone likes you.More or less someone may say something bad about you front of you or behind of you.You can not stop everyone making conments on you.What we should do is just live in our ways and change ourselves in good direction.Just be optimistic.Just be yourself.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 11
hi xiaomagevin you must be on the w rong discussion? as what
you say here has no meaning here. I would hope you would care that the 75 dollars one mylotter sent to another for help will not be be lost or stolen. I feel the second mylotter should either do what he was supposed to do or return the money to the mylotter owner. I say he as I have no idea if the mylotter was a man or woman. Hi you are very new so just watch where you are respond so you will not lose responses by their not making sense. Do read the guidelinea and the FAQ.s and any other information as it all helps when you are new. Welcome to mylot. u
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
I am sure the sender contacted the receiver first before sending the money to the receiver's paypal account (I hope I am right)
Now, if the person (receiver) is missing from the moment he/she receives the money- that's real bad for the sender.
I want to share my real experience.
I did sent my money to a mylotter who has an EON card to withdraw my earnings.
I sent $105 twice to this mylotters paypal account and give my bank account where this mylotter should deposit the money after withdrawing from paypal (since my paypal is not yet verified till this time)
I only met this mylotter once and thanks God I was never cheated.
Yes,it's easy to trust someone when it comes to money matters.
But,I do feel that,that mylotter is a trusted one and I can assure I will not be cheated and I am right with my intuition.
I hope your friend will get the money back- it's a big amount...and earning online is not easy.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 11
hi jaiho yes you were lucky that the person you trusted was a trustworthy person. I am hopping in this matter a known
mnylotter will also prove trustworthy and just be a case
of being ill or out on town and will contact the mylotter
'who sent him or her that large amount of money.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
err typos
Yes,it's NOT easy to trust someone when it comes to money matters.
Yah, I am glad I found a trusted one and mind it again...I send twice
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@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
It is a clear misunderstanding because before the transaction took place,we do not know if there was an agreement or an open word that " this person can be helpful" from what aspect would the money be helpful? The possibility that the receiver might have or not misconcepted the sender for the purpose. There is a purpose gone with the sending and not for gift purposes it is clear in that situation. However, if this receiver is one of the popular people here, then I guess he should make action on this not to give negative credibility just for money sake. We must be molded being a better person here, especially, we respond to topics not just to earn but to be honest or sincere in ourselves and that goes with actions in it. It is very sad if the real score of not being able to respond by the receiver is because of refusal to return the money? he cannot buy trust or even friendship.
If he is still active now, with this fact he has pending unresolved obligation to other person, then I guess he must fix this first because in some ways, while he is answering some topics or making some topics might come in his thought about this problem. I guess he has the full responsibility being a receiver of that amount to make actions in returning the said money or fulfilling the purpose they have agreed upon before the transaction.
May this serve as an insight for all of us here that " a money no matter how small or big, earned or granted, ONCE SPENT IS NOTHING, but a Trust of friendship, ONCE SPENT IS ENDURING"
I hope they will be able to resolve this matter, for the sake on one's credibility as a person and conscience..
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@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
Well, we have to go in the reality of his actions first. It does not mean we are judging that person.. The thought is, No matter whatever the reasons of being silent are.. For you to be able to understand is to give a communication..He must apologize for whatever reasons he gave, because, take in consideration also of the one who gave and thinking things in doubt.. He must present himself in a a way if money is not the real issue about not fixing this problem.. He must do his responsibility. If he cannot, then apologize and return the money to be fair to the sender who has hanged and hoping for many things he was dreaming as of this time he cannot contact the receiver..In any normal person when that happened? What is the main reason to be thinking off? is it because he has good reasons for not replying or just because there is a figure involved? It is best to deal this matter rather make himself be someone in negative credibility as a person turning to be an irresponsible in actions..
I understand you care for both of them, but now we have to be objective in a way, what is the real happening as what you have shared.. If you as a friend do give so much concern for this? then what about the receiver? much he is expected to give concern.. They are lucky for you because you have good realizations and opinions..
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@darapmonsta (653)
• India
6 Dec 11
There are somany users on mylot who are spammers, who knows if he has cheated him or not. But if he don't come back then he surely has. I feel very bad for that guy.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
6 Dec 11
Hello Youless,
How he/she transferred money to his/her paypal account? Did she know the user name of the paypal account of that person?
We should not trust anyone for money matters till we don't know that fellow i won't do it and if she transferred it by mistake then that person should return her money back but $95 is a big amount and people these days are not that honest.
@GardenGerty (160600)
• United States
6 Dec 11
Why would he send money to another MyLotter? This site is not for soliciting funds from one another. I hope your friend is not being scammed, and if there is a concern, the friend that sent the money should check it out with MyLot and find out if the other user is legitimate and has a valid account. I would not send PayPal money to anyone on here, especially not that much.
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@aprilsong (1884)
• China
6 Dec 11
Well,it is really a bad thing. But i think these kind of people do exist, to take advantage of others' weakness and make profit. How can we treat these kind of people, we have no solutions. Because there is no law to protect such things, they may cheat this person once, then turn to another person to cheat. As you have said, 95$ is a big amount of money, especially for people who making hard money online as me. Well, actually, i really don't know how to do such things, when you are in a low position, you have no choice at all. Wish paypal can treat Chinese equally.
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@aprilsong (1884)
• China
6 Dec 11
Well,it is really a bad thing. But i think these kind of people do exist, to take advantage of others' weakness and make profit. How can we treat these kind of people, we have no solutions. Because there is no law to protect such things, they may cheat this person once, then turn to another person to cheat. As you have said, 95$ is a big amount of money, especially for people who making hard money online as me. Well, actually, i really don't know how to do such things, when you are in a low position, you have no choice at all. Wish paypal can treat Chinese equally. Anyway, China has done so much for Americans.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 11
hi youless I do hope so too as 95 dollars in US currency is a
lot of money to most of us.Odd that the other person does not
stay in contact. You would think someone active on mylot would
be honest and help the other mylotter out. If he or she as you
say cannot be helpful then they should send back his or her money.
I hate to think an active mylotter would cheat another mylotter.
Trust is a real problem here as the mylotter is waiting and the
other person is not available. I hope this problem is solved
the right way and does not cheat the other user ou t of all that money.
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@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 11
Hi youless,
I sincerely hope the involved parties will be able to reason out this huge misunderstanding. A lot of money is at stake here. A man transforms his hard work and energy into money and no one else has the right to take it away for no reason. Hopefully the money will reach its rightful owner as soon as possible.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16754)
• China
7 Dec 11
I agree with you.If the mylotter who received the money do nothing to help,he or she must send back the money.However there is a catch in it somewhere ,judge by what the mylotter that wrote to you said that he or she can't contact that person.If so ,she or he was surely taken in by some person.
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
8 Dec 11
I don't think that's a misunterstanding,and I can see there are more and more scams like that.There are many persons throughout the internet,who make friends with you,and once you trust them he or she would ask you for financal help.And after they get the money they will disappear.
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@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
hello there.it is awful to hear the story.there are so many cheaters and thieves out there.i am not saying that he or she ran away with the money but if he or she will not return the money soon, i can justify that he or she is a thief.i hope this problem will be solved soon.95 dollars is a lot of money.
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@leon923940426 (480)
•
6 Dec 11
I do not know what should I response but I am sure I am not any of them .
Hehhe , we should try somebody but not mean we should try everybody . Both of them have made mistakes . I hope everything will going fine .
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