emotional baggages....

@Zelmarq (12607)
Cebu City, Philippines
December 5, 2011 8:14pm CST
Choosing to unpack emotional baggage is similar to cleaning out a suitcase after a trip. With emotional baggage, begin by throwing away and taking steps to forgive those who hurt you. With your personal dirty laundry, apologize or make necessary amends to those you've wronged. That includes apologizing to God and learning to forgive yourself. -Anonymous- i hope we all could share and have fun here.... thank you in advance and happy mylotting....
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girl_thinking
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
Hello zelmarq, that is a very insightful thought But I guess in reality it is not as easy as that Emotional baggage are once part of our life so in as much as we want to throw them away, it is not an easy thing to do. It is quite hard to let go of something that has been a part of you even if that part hurts you. Oh well, it takes time to unload but at the end, I believe that the baggage will be free of those unnecessary emotions. Little by little. One at a time. Good day!
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Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
10 Dec 11
yes, i also have a lot of baggages and have decided to really give it up..... thank you for sharing have a nice day.....
Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Dec 11
thank you so much girl..... take care always and have a nice day....
girl_thinking
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Hello Zelmarq, Good for you. I pray that you will let your emotional baggage go without going through hardship. Have a nice day to you!
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dong88
@dong88 (795)
• China
6 Dec 11
Thank you for sharing! This is a good method. Let's throw away those unhappy,something that hurt his own behavior. All things be grateful for the gift our life is more happy. Happy every day!
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Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Dec 11
you are very much welcome.... im happy that can also share great ideas that have touched my heart and also help others feel good through reading those posts. thank you for sharing and ahave a nice day. happy mylotting take care always .
banta78
@banta78 (4326)
• India
6 Dec 11
There are two ways to handle it. One, you can choose to see beauty in life and everything around. You can choose to be positive and happy by changing your perceptions and attitude to life. This is simpler. Second to resolve and empty your deep seated emotions, you would have to look deep within and work on past issues. Not always easy and takes time and patience. With increased awareness and healing that comes out of it, your life would change for better. Sure, faith in God and in yourself and having forgiving mindset definitely helps. Have good day, Cheers!
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Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Dec 11
yes, i like your response here and all the details that you have touched. Its nice to really have that positive attitude and do the best we can to do all things through christ. thank you for sharing and have a nice day. happy mylotting and take care.....
Stephannie
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Dec 11
This works sometimes but not all of the time. Sometimes people just will not leave you alone to let things stay in the past.
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Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
6 Dec 11
well, others cant let go and cant forgive, they never thought of living life in the future always stock on the past. Thats why people just cant move on and get going....
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cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
I love the word! Emotional baggage. I hope that all people would carry that kind of baggage. With that baggage, we say people forgive those who have hurt them and say sorry too. In times of Christmas, let us remember to have this emotional baggage thingy and let us start to forgive people.
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Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Dec 11
like when we travel we have to travel light and leave the things behind that could hinder us from traveling life with ease. thank you for sharing and have a nice day. happy mylotting take care and god bless....
mmartingardner
@mmartingardner (3)
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6 Dec 11
Emotional Baggage can truly drain ones energy, and get in the way of progressing forward with other things in your life. It is best to deal with your emotional baggage quickly instead of avoiding it because if you don't you will end up going through a lot of drama. when drama begins it seems to have a way of taking over, and making other things in your life go haywire as well.
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Hazel Funcion
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Dec 11
yes its true that we have to deal with it and leave it behind.......than living through life we have to bring things that has long happened... thank you for sharing and have a nice day.... take care.... happy mylotting....