What will be your reaction if your husband says " you are his struggles" ???

Philippines
December 6, 2011 12:30am CST
Hi ! i just want to know about your initial reactions or somewhat opinions regarding struggles in life. I didn't know that, i can be one of my husband's struggle not until we had a little sharing of words and exchanging ideas and principles that he strikes me into saying " You know what? i cannot make direct decisions of my ministry because of you ! ". In other words, he is struggling because of me? did i hear it right? Well, enough in saying it. I ask him why did i become a struggle to him? Does it mean, am i a hindrance of his success or what? i doubt. Then i told him in return, For me, " you are not a struggle, why should i?" i just learn how to accept things and things the way it is. If you have struggles, that means you don't trust everything to God. why? because he said so. Why should i have struggles if i put everything to God? I don't know how i felt upon hearing it... and don't know how to keep it on a bright side of me. If you were on my case what should you do? Thanks, and more power...
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