This is a part of my life that I need to endure.
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
December 7, 2011 12:49am CST
Good day fellow mylotters,
Sometimes it is really difficult to live. As God does not give it all for you. Just like the situation that I was in now. Before, I need to book a flight and ask in advance a month of vacation just to be with my family. So I can be with them during Christmas and New Year. That during those times, I always make it a point that the month of December is a month of my vacation to spend with my family. But now, it is completely different. Thus, I do not want to spend anymore the holidays with my family. That after all what happened between me and my brother, between me and my mother, I do not want to be with them this coming Christmas and New Year. That, I relatively spend it alone and away from them rather than to spend with them having no good communication at all.
What to do, I guess, this is a part of my life that I need to endure.
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6 responses
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
7 Dec 11
Hello Miss.. I'm sorry that you've been going through such bad times... I stay alone too and I can imagine what you're going through... I'm sorry to hear that.. Just imagine that you're not the only one and make yourself a good Christmas dinner... :-) or else, you can spend it with your friends... Take care...
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
hello mr_pearl,
you have a point on that.
yes it is, that aside from me, there are some other people who spend the holidays alone and i am aware of this.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Let time heals. I think you need some space. Whatever it is between you and your brother, you and your mother, I hope you will be able to reconcile with them. As for me, I will not let Christmas pass not unless I have forgiven all the people that has been sorry for me.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
I understand about it.
I face same situation way back years ago and it hurts.
There is an emptiness that is hard to explain,but must need to endure.
I am sure this stage will pass and will make you stronger than you are.
@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
hello there.it seems that a strife between you and your family is preventing you from celebrating the holiday season with them. i know i am not in the position to tell you this but i will still give you a piece of advice.try to tame your ego my friend.this is the best time to settle disputes.remember that whatever happens, they will always be your family. in times of trouble, you can always count on them.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
7 Dec 11
I can understand at where you are standing now. If you do not find fun with your family then have this Christmas with your friends. I think friends will give you fun and joy and they helps you to have a good christmas.
Advance merry Christmas wishes.
@Spitfyre99 (56)
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7 Dec 11
Stick it out. Life gets tough, then it gets easy, then it gets tough again.
