i feel in love but have no love life!!
By ever_purple
@ever_purple (522)
Philippines
December 7, 2011 12:58am CST
right now i dont know why that though i currently dont have a boyfriend right now, i feel that im in love!!hahahaaa...i know its kinda weird but perhaps though im love less i dont focus myself on that. i know that i am loved by my God, family friends, relatives and people who love and cares for me....=))...
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12 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
7 Dec 11
a new love to make you love your life.
why is it.
obviously something short.
simply indulge in this because you love when love is happy.
Enjoy life and you will surely love Him.
Life and love are our daily lives.
nice day!
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@luntian_grace (1373)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
girl! i feel bad for you... most loveless people on the planet would say the say... "i know that god, family, relative, and who ever loves me"... but face it you want a boyfriend and may be a nice husband!
i know the feeling... right now i want to shoot myself... god my friend wave her ring in all her photographs at facebook and posting on the wall "I'M GETTING MARRIED!" god i do want to kill myself seeing that diamond wrap on her finger... well i love her no offence... she is a dear one and i think that may be its time that she should be married they have been together live forever and we thought he will never gonna ask her... but he did....
i did hate myself turning down five proposal and now wish that i didn't... god!
so i know that you are in love to the feeling of being in love... like what my friend always tell me but then again when it comes knocking on my door i chicken... i just hope that we will have that guy who would stick around and may be offer us a diamond someday... cross fingers everyone!
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
well i know people would say that towards me but my feelings right now is genuine...i am happy though i dont have a boyfriend....i would be hypocrite if i'll say i dont want a boyfriend..of course as a girl i do. but that doesnt mean i will be bitter. i think you should not feel that way but i understand where your feelings are coming from. perhaps because of the grudges you are keeping in your heart because you have said no to 5 proposal that is why you feel that way...but that is only my perception to your situation...but i know God will bless the both of us with a man that is soley destined for us..=))
@sanjeevsharmaa (1)
•
8 Dec 11
hey'''''''''
you know something......its not heart who love.
but its mind which feels.
what you say?
@luntian_grace (1373)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
scientifically we know smart-pans! it's all in the head... we love is from emotion and emotion came from chemical from the brain... god! i just hope that we will find our man... i better go out for a date right? how about you... trying to find some day or just taking it easy? ok love hope that you will up date... keep posting anyways!
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
8 Dec 11
Feeling loved is a very important thing. When we are single you are right we are more able to focus on other things if we want to. It is good that you focus on other goals in your life rather than having a romance love life. Being with our family and friends help build our character and then when we are ready for a loving relationship hopefully we will be prepared for it.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
you are truly right!! and entering in a relationship, once must be truly prepared because you are investing not just time but emotions as well..thanks for responding..
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 Dec 11
There is a lot that needs to be invested into a relationship. In order for things to work out well both partners have to be ready for such a relationship and commitment. And if both individuals have allowed themselves time to build their personal strengthens then they are in a better position to have a success of their relationship.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
You don't have to have a boyfriend or love life for you to be in love. Base from what you said, it is because you have with your family, God, friends, relatives and people. Enjoy every moment with them. You must be thankful to have them in your life for they are such a blessing.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
yes...because they are the ones that is forever in my life and will always be there for me!!thanks for responding...=))
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
Funny, I've said that to myself and to others when I still don't have any boyfriend. But deep within I am wishing that I have a guy who would give special attention to me. And whenever I see lovely couples so sweet, i feel a bit envious and asked why don't I have a boyfriend. I know the feeling of being in love despite not having a boyfriend. I usually felt it too whenever I listen to good songs. And I love that I am being surrounded with family and friends and know that I am loved by God.
But being in love without that special person who Loves us will eventually give us that feeling of emptiness. I do hope that before you feel that feeling, one special guy would come to your life.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
well honestly sometimes i do feel envious but right now i just feel that im in love though i dont have special someone...even i myself is feeling weird but that is what i feel....=))
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
It's okay purple, you are still young. So just enjoy being single and the feeling of being in love.
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@boyuancy (1708)
• India
8 Dec 11
You are not the only one. I do not believe in god. And the love that you get from Family and friends is not nearly as close to getting loved by a partner. I want a girlfriend too and love the FEELING of love. But unfortunately, I am extremely ambitious and I want to make something of my life before I get into a relationship. I just turned 20, wasted all my teen years without having a life. I just fear it maybe too late before I start living.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
may i ask do you have troubles with your life? i mean do you have any personal problems. cause based on what you have responded in my discussion i can say that you7 are unhappy with your life. well i have hard and bad experiences with my teenage life too...same to you when i turned 20 this year im not that really excited of being "an adult" because i havent enjoyed my teens that much...there is a lot of things i wish i could experienced just like the other teenager!! but for me its fine to do what you want to do before entering in a relationship so that you can be ready enough to handle a relationship...that is why i havent got into a relationship yet right now because i think there is a lot of things i must do and need to do with my life...well as i always say there is nothing to be rush about...i hope and pray that you will find your much soon. hoping as well that if you are blessed to have her, you will prove to yourself God is true 'cause He alone provides the best for His children...=))
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 11
You are not alone! I am also feeling like you cared by others closest to you. Enjoy your blessings while you can.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
That's another kind of love -family,friends,relatives.
But having someone to love us, someone who will care and be a part of our life is another kind of love too.
I wish you will find the other meaning of love :)
@evitz711 (65)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
Hi Friend,
Its kinda weird that you felt that Falling in Love without a Lover. And your right love matters if the people around you like your family and friends loves you so much...
Love partner is not for search. It will search you.
Try to be happy and lovely always...
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
hi to you too friend...=)) well i agree with you that i must not search because love will find me....i will and all of us must be happy and lovely always...=))
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
7 Dec 11
Well, you know yourself better than anyone else. I mean having family, god, friends to love and care about you is good. I can see that you are contented. However, you do need a romantic partner some day. I can assure you that you will feel more love ^^
@ivonne2011 (22)
• United States
8 Jan 12
It is good to feel like that it just means you are content with your life. Good problem to have I think lol.