What did you do if your wife is always care about her family?
@selasorsirc18 (28)
December 7, 2011 2:04am CST
If your wife is always helping, in some point the wife is forgotten you as your husband. Always her family first before you."husband". To helping in other people is not a bad thing. Its a good thing and i agree to that. But sometimes if your husband and wife is getting poor the wife is thinking in her family not us. I'm sad if that situation comes. because i"m feel so sad and not special anymore. Always others is the first one.
8 responses
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
7 Dec 11
Well if this situation has already arisen in your family, then you must talk to your wife about this. Tell her that you appreciate her concern about her family and do not mind the financial help she gives to her family, but she needs to understand her priorities. Tell her that you are also ready to help her parents, but everything should be done in budget.
Sit with her and tell her how much you enjoyed her attention. Let her know that you miss all the good moments you both shared in the past. I am sure she will understand your emotions.
@selasorsirc18 (28)
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7 Dec 11
Thank you i appreciate a lot all you said. i hope she will understand me.:(
@drambits (96)
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7 Dec 11
You should talk with your wife about your current situation in order to prevent the worst from happening. You need to tell her that she already has a family to take care of and that it isn't wrong if she takes care of her mother and father but she should prioritize her own family more than anything else.
@selasorsirc18 (28)
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7 Dec 11
your right i hope she prioritize our family more than anything and any one else.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
8 Dec 11
If your wife is always taking care of others the question is: why is she doing that?
Out of quilt? Does she need more attention, good words, compliments?
Was your wife always like that?
I think you should talk this over. Now and be straight and strict about it.
Family (you, her and children) first. Next other family, neighbours, friends, etc.
If you talk to her, tell her how you feel and that you need her, this might be a good reason for her to put you at the first place.
I think she wants to be needed.
@rusale (647)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Maybe your wife is happy on those things which she does first. If she love it, then you should support her. If you really love her, you need to do what will make her happy. Maybe in that sense she'll feel more in love with you. Almost all women have soft heart. They will feel in love more if you'll just follow on what she likes to do as long as it is not illegal.
@Fossilbora (12)
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7 Dec 11
i think you should have a heart-to-heart talk first.you must make her realize that
the family you and her orangized should be think about first.
After your own family have been satisfied,if you still have the ability,well,go ahead to help her family.
if you donot,your family go first.
@selasorsirc18 (28)
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7 Dec 11
Thank you so much. I guess we talk a heart-to-heart conversation later. but has a problem, she always angry with me.
@lupeng (82)
• China
8 Dec 11
oh,if my wife is always heiping her family,i think i will agree with her,support her.maybe i'm a Chinese,it's different from the Europe.but we all love our familly,we should love every member of our family.everything has a limited ,as long as no more than limit.don't worry,your wife you too.if you meet dangerous or you are ill,your wife must be take care of you.you are very health and belive her,so she put more attention on her family.
