why human feelings are so sensitive????

India
December 7, 2011 7:41am CST
days are normal, time is so normals.... it will not stop for any one. Love is universal, but over loved is our property(we feel like that). But when the day comes that she/he is gonna marry someone, if your property is leaving you. How is your heart feel? We will not obey, at least our loved one is being in a close relationship with others. really it is so painful. no body can full fill it. Why tears will not stop? why our heart has to fill with full of sorrow??? WHY HUMAN FEELINGS ARE SO SENSITIVE, WHEN THE TIMES COME LIKE THIS???
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@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
7 Dec 11
We have been sensitive since we were born. If you look at a baby, if you do the wrong thing, you can hurt its feelings and it cries tears. It's just something that is in us. Yes, when we like somebody, we sometimes think they are our property. But we might also love them. I think love is like magnetism, a force of the universe. Of course as humans, we have pride and selfishness that mix with the love. So when you love someone, pride, selfishness, selflessness, and other things come into play. And when you are selfless and almost give your heart to the loved one and they leave, then you are hurt and maybe feel betrayed, if you gave a lot to the relationship.
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• India
9 Dec 11
thank you so much for you great words.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
7 Dec 11
Well its just human emotions , some stronger other weaker . But first noone is noone property , they might want to be one another , but somehow people hardly give themself to someone . If they truly do there is no problem . But someone is not your property because you love them , and well they marry someone else , so they want to be someone elses not yours . (Ok now i'm sad too )
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• India
9 Dec 11
friend, y are u sad??
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
8 Dec 11
Yes human feelings indeed are very sensitive and very painful and hurts a lot. All this because God made our body and heart with flesh, if only he had given us stone heart, we would not cry so much. Human heart is so soft and all little things make it emotional and flood of tears flow out.But at the same time there is something very beautiful that keeps us happy and that is "LOVE", the whole world is beautiful just because of love between relations no matter how you are related. Love between parents and children, brother and sisters, husband and wife and many more.If these relations bring tears to your eyes, it is all because of love. Love is gift of God and that is why we are so sensitive
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Dec 11
Human feelings are so sensitive because of conditioning. We have people in our lives that are sensitive and we become sensitive also. SOme are more sensitive than others. Some are not sensitive at all. If we see sensitivity in our lives then we are more able to feel it ourselves.
• India
9 Dec 11
@savypat (20216)
• United States
7 Dec 11
It's because your ego is involved. Any time that a relationship doesn't go the way you want it to, you become judgemental and hurt. If one can accept what is and surround yourself with love knowing that what ever has happened lessons were there to be learned and all is as it should be. If you could only see the whole picture without the involvement of your ego you would see that. It's hard work, but well worth it. Blessings.
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• India
9 Dec 11
yes, ego is also the main evil factor for our weakness.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I think its because human have an emotions and thats part of a human being.
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
That's normal feeling when one of your loved one will getting married.You need to accept the reality of life, you don't owned them let them go and let them find also their own happiness.The best thing you can do is to wish him/her more happiness in life that she/he choose.Love is unconditional , that's what we need to learn.