To Go or Not to Go???

I understand how you feel about the situation. I know how it feels like. THere are lot of reasons why you want to leave the company and one of them is the management itself. I know you don't like how do they treat people. They are really unfair. Since we are best of friend and you are like a brother to me, it is really painful to me that you are leaving the company. We've been going out every weekeened to release the stress that we have. And it is really sad that we will be doing that very seldom already if your gone. We don't know if we can sync our schedule but I'm looking forward to that. Seeing you happy also makes me happy. Even its hard for me to see my bestfriend and brother to leave, I have to sacrifice for his own happiness.

My priority would be finding a better job. If you care about those friends, there is still a way you can contact them even if you are not working there.

Welcome to mylot Nightshade When working with a stressful job what matters most is- the people around us. As long as you are happy with your mates (teammates) stay. I resigned from my previous job due to that reason. I am not happy with my environment- too much pressure and my teammates are giving me more pressure since I am the newbie among them.

WEll, you better make plans, and try to browse the company of your choice in case you really eager to make a move to leave. besides, can you just leave it to next year? it's christmas season, it would be sad for you to do permanent leave on the holidays. there are people who cared for you and that's IMPORTANT. chances of looking for a happy going working environment is relatively slim. . remember to pray for wisdom in making the right decision, our advice ain't worth if you can't make it up yourself

hi NS, Welcome to mylot Welll I am kind of person who let go of something that is no longer makes me happy if you think you have a choice then leave this current job and take a risk of finding one if you are worried about the people who cares for you there for sure you can still see each other even you are not in that same company anymore. keep on posting happy mylotting

if you are no longer happy in the company then you should go. this is going to affect your performance sooner or later if you stay unhappy.

hi nightshade welcome t o mylot. You are new. wow. You know you can still know all the friends you made there and keep in touch, b ut if you really are not happy there its eventually going to make you less efficient and could even get you laid off. I would resign and look for a job where you could be ha pier as the friends you leave behind can still be your f riends out of work. working in misery i s just no fun and it can be self defeating too. good luck and God Bless

Good day Nightshade13, Honestly, I was in the same situation before. That, it was last February of this year when I have think of resigning from my job. That, it was during the last quarter of 2010, I have had the same feeling as you are feeling right now. Having some feeling of hesitancy, whether I will go to the office or not. That there are days, I really feel so lazy going to work, that I do not want to be awake just for the sake of going to the office. Until that month of February 2011 came, that I really need to come up into a decision, either it will break me for ever or make my coming days really fine. It is either make or break in my life and in my career. That I need to choose between the two situation. Until one fine day of April 3, an answer pop-up to my mind, I choose to file my resignation. To tell you the truth, I was so happy that time. That, I have feel the true meaning of joy. That, I was like a bird released from the cage. And in your situation, I would rather choose to look and find another job wherein you can be happy. After all, we are working for our own good and satisfaction. For us to handle our life in a right and proper manner. But if we are working and getting a terrible amount of stress from it, then, it is not worth keeping for. Not worthy for us to spend our time to work. Thus, those few people you really cared for will still be there even you have find another work. As, communication will still connect a bridge for you to care for them.

before saying or giving any suggestion i would love to say that i am basically a student. But if I were in your situation, I would definitely leave the company or a job if I have got some other better chance. If you have worked enough, then please do take rest and enjoy the remaining part of life. I too never want to miss my friends here in the college. But after schooling, we got new friends when we were in 11th and 12th standard and the same when we started our professional course. So new friends come in in the journey of life. So never give up a journey that always has comforted you. You can get them in contact through phones, online media, or through weekend parties. Hope it was useful and may god bless you with all the right thoughts in choosing a right path. ,.......

You need to listen to your heart. You should calculate on what's more important for you. To leave the company and be happy or to stay with few people you cared for. But if you're really having a hard time staying in that company. You'd better leave. You must prioritize what will make you happier. You need to decide it when you're not in a bad mood. Making a decision in that time is really not a good idea. You need to think it deeply.

Leave at a proper time. Life is short,do not waste time doing the things that you don't like.There have been so many choices and so many opportunities outside.Find the one fit for you,begin a new life.

What would I do? Knowing that I am my first priority, I would choose to take care of myself first. I would rather be friends with a select few and work for a different company than to stay with the same company and be miserable from all the lies, backstabbing, and mentally cruelty. My family deserves me to be happy, so I can be there to take care of them when they need me to be. Your friends are your friends, and if they are true friends they would want you to be happy no matter what company you work for. There is no division of loyalties when it comes to personal happiness.

Not to long ago I was in that same situation where I was not happy with the company that I worked for but I really enjoyed the people I work with.We all had the same feelings about the place so we could vent to each other.I eventually did leave the company and I am now working at a company that is more laid back and I am happy there.I remember what an instructor I had at school said once "you are not married to a job,if you are not happy there leave."Something is wrong if you just want to stay in bed and not go to work.I mean,the people that you work with will still be your friends.Why not find a place you will be happy to go to work and visit your friends at your old place of employment?If you are asking the question of weather you should go into work,it is probably a real good sign that you should start looking elsewhere for employment.I know this because I used to ask that very question every day.

i think you should change youself ,adapt to the work!escaping can't change anything.do you have the courage to change?

Hi there, I hope you are not experiencing the symptoms of depression. The reason why I tell you this is because I had experienced just like what you did in the past. When I woke up in the morning I often thought about not going to work. I even took several medical leaves just because I didn't feel like showing up in the office! Most people won't feel troubled to go to office because there is nothing to worry about. If you are having this dilemma I suggest that you go and have a check with your doctor before sending the resignation letter. It would be such a loss if you resign without knowing why you are feeling not motivated to work. I have many friends who are having depression too, and this is a normal condition and everybody can get it from time to time. It can be cleared by taking anti-depressants and if you don't want to take medications there are many natural treatments you can use such as doing Yoga, meditation and joining certain support groups. I hope you will consider my suggestion before sending in your resigning letter. You might regret it later if you quit now and not fix your problem. Anyway this is just my suggestion and if you feel it is not appropriate then it's alright. I hope you all the best. Good luck!

I think if I were in that kind of situation, I would be looking for a job constantly and only take "days off" if I had an interview. I don't think I would tell the employer I was looking until you have received an offer or at least until someone wants to call them for a reference on you. It is better to find a place where you can be happy and visit your friends during after work hours. Have a great week!!!