How does it feel to be brokenhearted?

Yes of course, if you really love him, just give him another chance. Men are naturally created lazy and stubborn with their actions. Actually, its just a challenge of you two that your love with one another is strong enough to take this things around you. If you are ready to face the challenges in this world. I know its a tough decision, but just remember If HE is the ONE, then HE is the ONE, if NOT for sure HE is not for you...just it..:) Good luck..

Hi there, First of all let me send you a deep sympathy, yes I understand your situation perfectly well. It is hard to forget someone that you truly love all this while when they suddenly gone and you are left heartbroken. However, it is good that you are strong in facing this problem. You don't let yourself be drawn away by your feeling. Yes, you have your own dignity and don't every let your ex step on your head just like that. Even when he comes back to you don't ever take him in again. If he can cheat you once, he can do it again and again. I have experienced the same thing and I thought he had changed but no, he didn't change at all. It is difficult for anybody to change his own attitude so don't believe anything he says. You deserve a better man, and I mean it. I know you will find a better man, so hold your head high and don't let him fool you again! Good luck in finding your new love!

Yes it can be devestating at the time but you get over it when someone new comes along and I think in my experience you always get better, its a little like upgrading

The decision to take the man back in your life despite his betrayal depends on the degree of your love to him.Considering that you both are still single, it does not mean that you are bonded with each other. Just look at some married couples whose spouses have been tempted to be into an illicit relationship yet either the husband or the wife able to forgive the partner. Always consider that men by nature are polygamous and it would be up to the wife or girlfriend how to always keep hold of her man. Thrice in a relationship, I have been betrayed by my first two ex's and the feelings is beyond explanation that only those who have been with it can fully understand the pain. Recently the third beau of 8 years, did it again but on a different level though the pain is tolerable because of the conditioned mind set I have made to myself. However, this man came back to me very remorseful that I have given him another chance, call it LOVE...because I am still crossing my fingers as to what would be our future together.Only God knows and His outpouring mercy be upon us. May God's wisdom be upon you;)

I think if i still love him and he can prove to me that he really love him i will accept him again but i will much careful on the second time and i will just give him less love. Even he can prove to me that he will not hurt me again i will not tell to him that i already forgive him i will just let him to do lot of efforts because i really like when some one showing effort for me.

Well, in that case, definitely no. I do not like to chase the person who once fooled me. If he wants me back, then he should struggle to get me again since it is never easy to bear the pain once you are already hurt. Just live with the heartache and in time, it will just pass. I already experienced that thing. Moving forward took a long time but it was all worth it.

That would hurt me so badly for sure. No one wants to have a broken heart- but this happens when we least expect it to happen. I was hurt once and it hurts me so badly that I thought I could never fall in love again. but, after many years...I've learned to love again... :)

At a certain point of your life when you experience loss shame defeat, betrayed from the belove, you do feel broken hearted. It depends upon your temperament. But you will surely react. Some may cry, some may react like a stone, some may withdraw and some may become the victims of depression. It is not because of pride and dignity, it is because you are human and you can find an alternative leaving everyone their own freedom that I go ahead eventhough broken hearted. Yes a person is capable to stand up and seek for an alternative and expand the expression of that same love in a different way seeking higher good.

I am sorry for what happened to you relationship. It is indeed hard to accept knowing that after 6 years, your partner have cheated on you. That is intolerable. Don't mind him anymore! He is not for you. Just move on with your life. To answer your question, I don't want him to be back in my life after all the things he has done for me.

for me,i won't let that person back,once is enough..if you let him back,that only means it is ok for you to be hurt and be cheated again.I never experienced to be cheated but my friend does.don't let the guys fool us.

Sometimes we don't realize how much we love someone until we let them go. Hopefully if your friend ever gets a second chance at love he will handle it a little more delicately and realize how lucky he is to find "love" again. At one time, I may have thought about trying to get love "back" but after such a long time passed, I decided I was "worth more" and deserved better treatment from someone that I loved. When I love someone, I want them to love me back as much as I love them.