Can I really change my life?

It took Hubby and me 20 years to reach our goal to live where we do now. Many things influenced this. What we did was take it one small step at a time always with the final goal in mind. We traveled, each vacation to the area we wanted to live in, until we had narrowed it down to a much smaller area and then we searched for property to buy, this took us a good 5 years. After that all we could do is continue our jobs until retirement came along, then we sold our house at a loss and just moved. Now here we are and it was all worth it. Goal setting and careful planning made this work, it never turned out just the way we wanted but we were flexable enough to accept what we got.

You showed how boring your city life was and you thought that you would need to change it. My question what part of your life that you'd need to change. I was definitely sure you could change your life even without having to move out or away from where you are now. I though that you were indeed in the need of changing the look on your vision, it seemed that you wanted something different, alive like for e.g flowers and animal stuff like. You should start from your own garden. You said that you didn't have enough for gardening. I suggested you made hanging garden, all can be possible so long as you have space even a myriad of space. All you need was to find the ideas of how to make your dream coming true. Get some information detailly refer to your wish you wanted too. Good Luck

I do believe in positive thinking and I believe putting it out there can really help, I do have a story but it is a very personal one that involves in having a teenage passion about a pop singer and I mean a passion and then thirty years later actually meeting this person and for him becoming the most important thing in my life, so I think having him on my mind all the time even through relationships, I call it a dream come true.

Where as the tricks as you put it does help, for me I've found that I'm usually the one standing in the way or achieving these things I seek. Let me explain. I find myself in this horrible loop where I try to move forward but I'm starting 5 steps back. I recognize the changes I need to make, better budgeting for example, but find it difficult because my husband and I weren't on the same page. Not just on the mundane either. He was one to be pessimistic and negative. It was like we were working against one another. I knew all the changes I made in the world weren't going to work, nor was magick, if we weren't working together. Also, I realize, "Rome wasn't built in a day" and I need to be patient. What I want and what I truly need may be different. Giving up, that isn't an option. Doing what I can do today to make positive change and yes, hope, that will keep me pressing on and open to recieving the things I need and even desire. I get down, we all do. We tend to sabotauge (sp) ourselves with doubt and fear instead of being thankful for what we have and what we know will be in ways we don't even notice. Is this the case for you? I can't say that. I don't know you and I'm not judging you. I'm just saying I have noticed this concerning myself. At the same time, if I've ever really been in a pinch I've recieved help. Not always from where I expected it, but it's been there.

hi, im really not much into cosmic tricks but i honestly believe that only you can have the power to change your life. you ofcourse need to have a vision of what you want and try to achive that vision by acting on it one day at a time. have a good day!

I understand what you mean and i know a website that may help you find what you want as far as land goes. http://www.londonproperties.com , you may find it easier to use the search tab they have on the left side of the page.