i should not have met you..
By tess_quinain
@tess_quinain (1149)
Philippines
December 8, 2011 5:33pm CST
I just wanted to share abut someone who is a big liar! But good thing i did not fall in love with him. Lol! I just felt bad because i trusted him as a friend and who knows I might fall in love with him because he is so nice to me.
Just two days ago, he told me that he was married already and have two kids. I was shocked because he was good at making lies. What i have learned from that is that i have to be very careful to someone who i want to love or else i might end up to another brokenheart. lol
I don't understand why he did that. He said he loved his wife so much and i don't think so. In the first place, he lied and that was totally not good. Hmp!
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8 responses
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
9 Dec 11
I am so sorry for the lie she told you and you almost believed them. I know guys like that, or people like that. They sure are good with words aren't they. And yes I do also have a few people I wish I had never met. But well I think we meet them coz we need to learn things.
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
He's so mean. He even said that he loves his wife so much. Haha. Did he know what is he trying to say? lol He's a crazy guy. He said he did not tell me the truth it was because he knew i would not chat with him anymore. He's really crazy. Lol.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Hi tess,
It's really a good thing you didn't fell in love with him. Some married men still tries to get close to single ladies and flirt with them. I have known many of them and will only learn they are married when someone asked about their kid. I don't think it's that hard to mention about their family, it doesn't mean that ladies will avoid them once they learned he has a wife and a kid already.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Better yet, do not fall in love until you know the person well. If you don't have an inkling who the person is, you will have no idea whether he is single or married. It does not hurt to ask his status I think and the earlier to ask him the earlier that the lie is cut short.
@emjay86 (640)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
That is just rude! In the first place, a relationship can only grow into something beautiful if it is cultivated with trust and communication. If at first, lie already is taking place, then the relationship would be a goner. Getting hurt is inevitable.
@chillmaik (67)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
yes! good thing you have saved your self from sure trouble those men who attempt or commit infidelity are not brave and real..good thing he admitted i though..
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
8 Dec 11
A sad fact of life, I have been told so many lies in my life time I no longer trust people until they give me reason not to, people have to prove they are trust worthy, I used to trust everyone but I learnt. You will meet someone and hopefull he will not lie to you.
@Hazelme (647)
• United States
9 Dec 11
That's really sad my friend, but i am happy you saw the real him soon before you fell in love with him. I don't understand how can men who are married denied their family that is totally sad, and maybe the reason why he told you the truth that he had a family and everything because he was feeling guilty in the inside. That's good you found out soon and yes we all should be careful who we fall in love ( follow your heard but take your brain along with you too).
