Forgive me for what i have done.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
Philippines
December 8, 2011 5:50pm CST
Hi..have you ever says to a friend forgive me for my faults,mistakes that i have done to you...?Yes really... i have done wrong,sin, to a friend i have, and yes i am saying to forgive me,because i realize that i was wrong and committed sin unto him..Because i felt in my hearts and to express to him about the Word please forgive me......I love and feel the joy after and peace...Christ forgiveth us,and how much more us to not forgive..right..?We should...Humble heart will always reap good fruits...
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14 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Dec 11
No I never did. I did not do anything wrong, I always did good to others and they all stabbed me in the back. I learned from that since that is what life is about. We have to learn from our mistakes.
I don't need any forgiveness and if it comes to christ or god I find it a very easy does it solution. So christians are free to kill and rape and robb and in the end they can say: forgive me and go to heaven?
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Christians/true believer are not free to do evil because GODS child should separate from the worlds actions,deeds and do all Gods work..They are forgiven once they have Jesus accepted once in their life..
And never be lost or go to Hell..And spiritually saved..if they should learn how to live right with God,and invite satan to temp them.While living in this world,temptations are every where and fighting the flesh and the spirit ,so believers know it already but some are not grow.Forgiveness should be done in humble heeart admitting the sins.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Dec 11
To say simply that deserves respect.
this is a good word forgiveness is real and a good thing.
everyone deserves forgiveness, everyone wants the best for yourself.
I think when you ask for forgiveness and realize what he did will always receive it.
nice day!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
Once you ask forgiveness is a kind of humbleness,and you did realize the mistakes..And it is from the heart,
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
When we commit something wrong to our friend, we should not only ask for forgiveness, but offer help on how to undo the result of such wrongdoing. That way, you will really, really be sincerely forgiven with no grudge to be kept anymore, not just forgiven for the sake of forgiving.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Committing mistakes are done but any body..So we ought to admit and humble each others forgiveness ,and accept it..
Something to forgive is because she/he done wrong to you .should do it heartily.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Dec 11
This is difficult if someone doing mistake even our friends or family members then immediately give the apologies but yes if we think then we can forgive after sometime.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Yes but we all should admit the wrong,and even others too and we are same ..just need to humble each others so not problems in long run and will not hurt by it..
@ferbjohn69 (1127)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I have asked a friend of mine forgiveness after I did something bad to him.I told my best friend how I felt after I did something bad to him,and understood me so he forgave me.After he had forgiven me our relationship became stronger and our love to each other increased.:)
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
That is great that your friend accepted you again,and the sins you done is forgiven,and the first is to Christ ...
Forgiveness has the power to release all the guilt's..
@itsme_chin (44)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
At some point of our lives, we do things that would hurt a friend whether it's intentional or not. Let's face it everybody makes mistakes, nobody is perfect. To say that you're sincerely sorry and to admit that you were the one who were at fault is a great step to make things right. It's a way of letting your friend know how much the friendship means to you and how sorry you are for what you've done. If in any case the other person won't accept your apologies, give the person some time. After all, time heals all wounds!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Yes we do all mistakes either for reason, or not still you are fallen and sin.Yes admitting and apologizing is great way to resolve problems.It is need to ask forgiveness and also forget the past..if the person not accept the apology,she/he will not hurt for not accepting it..
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Dec 11
I do not see any problem for saying " Forgive me " to your friend, if you are wrong. I am very surprised from those people whom shamed and find a weak personality to say sorry or forgive me for their friends. Strong people whom recognize their mistakes and try to correct.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
9 Dec 11
If you have done something seriously wrong to your friend, don't you think you have to do something more than just ask for forgiveness, or sorry? My friend, actually, not anymore, more like an enemy right now, I swore to myself, if someday, I have the financial power, or real power to control things, I will make his life miserable. That is what I will pay him back for what he'd done to me right now. Because of him, my financial status getting worse, and I am still paying for the debt that wasn't suppose to be mine. What comes around goes around! He will get his miserable life f**k someday.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Oh,,,blaming others will worse more..We people who done things mistakes..you should not pay because it is not yours..and now you have problems with that..we just need to have pure heart..
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@Hazelme (647)
• United States
9 Dec 11
Hey friend well i agree with you but it also depends on the person. For example if someone who asks you for forgiveness just says it but doesn't look like he is or doesn't mean it at all i think we shouldn't really takes their forgiveness seriously, but if a person says it from they're heart then yes i think you should forgive.
I love your example when about Christ, he forgive us and gave his life for us something people will rarely do in a lifetime. But they're are not asking to take away your life they're just asking for you to forgive them, nobody is perfect and sometimes your actions can say more than the words "Please forgive me"
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
It is easy to say forgive but is not from the heart!..If asking forgiveness is do it from the real heart,,Surely,but not repeated.Some people do it this but is not from the real heart..If a person know what done wrong,and yes realize it,should be doing to ask forgiveness ,repent,turning away..God knows that if you truly repented or not.every one will account to it..
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@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 11
That's good behavior cos you realize your mistake and want to ask apologizing. Your friends respond whether accept it or deny it, is his right cos he know what the best for him depend on what did see the mistake you did. If he really feel angry and disappoint with you he will not forgive you fast. So, your job is to show him how regret are you and how is your effort to make it better or how is your responsibility on your act.
If he doesn't want to forgive you now, it is big no no for force him forgive you or follow him wherever he go. Cos he needs more time to think and manage his feeling.
Hope you get your solution faster.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Its depends on the person,the person is humble heart and forgiving because even he,done also mistakes and why not forgive!Who are we to not forgive..Just need humble heart.
@pebblez8989 (321)
• United States
9 Dec 11
well everybody makes a mistake in there life. no one in this world is perfect. everybody at least done something wrong to someone one. but saying sorry and asking for forgiveness is a good way to start to make everything better between you and your friend. but its not going to be that easy you have to prove to them that your really sorry. they might not just forgive you that soon. it takes time.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Yes sure every one should admit their faults,confess and repent..We are not better than any one,our sin is not greater than others but the same to one another.We are to forgive and accept the forgiveness of others..
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Yes once we forgive others we experience joy,peace,and all the grudges,anger,bitterness will go away..And that is pure forgiveness..
@Fossilbora (12)
•
9 Dec 11
i think it differs and depends on what kind mistake or sin you make.
if it is a small one,maybe you can just ask for forgiveness.
if not,i think you should do something to fix it,then ake the forgiveness.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Small or big sin is the same .Is like murdering,steal,adultery is the same sin to one another.
God forgive the people who admits the sin they have,and also we should do it to others..People will consider the sin that is big but not the small.It is the same sin the big or small in God.To a friends,we should do it in same to forgive..
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@Arieles (2473)
• United States
9 Dec 11
I admire the fact that you have realized you did your friend wrong, but you have to really make your friend understand how sorry you are for the wrong doing. What is that quote, about betraying someone's trust? Once a trust is broken, it takes a long time to repair. I am not saying that it is impossible to repair the friendship, but it's going to require a lot of work on your part to actually show your friend how sorry you are for betraying their trust. If your friend cared about your friendship than I would say they will probably forgive you, but you really need to be sincere when you approach your friend and it might take longer than you think depending on what the betrayal actually was.