Loving and Hurting the Person You Love
By freymind
@freymind (1351)
Philippines
December 8, 2011 9:39pm CST
I just read about the article regarding the relationship of Rhian Ramos and Mo Twister.
The article confirmed that they have an almost 13 years age gap. Mo Twister allegedly made a video and was posted by an anonymous person in YouTube wherein he insisted that Rhian had an abortion.
This ruined Rhian's career in Philippine Show-business. Now she's taking a leave and will spend time with her family. She's not confirming nor denying the abortion. Since Philippines is a Christian country you can see a lot of comments pertaining to the bible and that abortion is taking a life.
If the abortion issue is true then it could be the end of her career. But what I wanted to discuss here is how a person like Mo Twister could made a video like that confessing the abortion that was done by Rhian.
Did he want to hurt Rhian or just wanted to come clean with their relationship blaming only Rhian with the abortion since he said she did it for her career? Rhian also commented that Mo Twister threatened her that if she decides to finish their relationship he will make sure that she loses all the things she loves the most, her career is one of them for sure.
If he did love her why hurt her and make the relationship public? There's a lot of celebrity couples who are very discrete with their relationship.
Did he made the video out of revenge? Out of pity of himself? What do you think guys? Did Mo Twister made the right decision on making the video?
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11 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
My take on this was that someone who is very depressed and really very affected with what he or she is going through, he will need to somehow get the steam off his chest. We all have different coping mechanism, others would turn to friends, many might turn to self destruction, others deal with the pain silently. He could have done something like this for himself. what was wrong was that the video got into the wrong hands. I think we could view this as something that he purposedly left on the laptop so others may be able to post it online or that he posted it himself anonimously.
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@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Sometimes, when we get so hurt and brokenhearted, we forget to think objectively, we pity ourselves and do things that we might regret afterwards. While I am not in favor of Mo's video on their relationship and not wishing to justify whatever made him to do such, he must have really gone momentarily insane that he forgot the pain he is going to inflict on someone he so loved. There is no pain greater than the one inflicted by someone you love. Both of them should have been stronger in accepting the consequences of their relationship. There are plenty of celebrities who have gotten pregnant but were able to continue on with a career. Look at Jenelyn Mercado who is currently very active in show business inspite of having a baby out of wedlock. Even Abby Eigenmann did not think twice but decided on continuing with the baby. A career can not be prioritized over a child and while most of us are broadminded in the current generation of women having babies out of wedlock, we still frown on abortion issues.If this would mean the end of Rhian's career, we leave it to her fans. I just pity these celebrities who lose their private lives from being popular. These scandals should never even be publicized for public consumption even if media gets good ratings out of it.
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I totally agree with you on this matter specially on the terms of having a baby out of wedlock its already a common thing in the country though we commend the women who have gone so bravely in carrying the child even if their partner is nowhere to be found.
Its true that being hurt by someone you love is the most painful thing a person could ever feel in his life since mixed feelings like betrayal will surface. I just hope that Rhian and Mo will move on with their lives.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
11 Dec 11
I think that Mo Twister was feeling depressed and talking honestly in his video. Shockingly he said Rhian had aborted their baby which I am surprised about since abortion is illegal in the Philippines. She loves her career so I hope it will survive. Many celebrity couples are very discrete but not this one.
I saw a program called Banged Up Abroad. A lady from the Philippines got into a relationship with an English man. The lady was separated from her husband. She got pregnant so it was evidence that she had been unfaithful to her husband. The police put her and the English man in jail.
I hope that Rhian will be safe from jail since she had an abortion. Good luck to her and her relationship with Mo Twister.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
13 Dec 11
I don't think that he did make the right decision in making the video saying that she had had an abortion. However, I also don't think that there is anything overall wrong with letting the relationship that you have with another person be out in the open.
With that said, I do understand that when relationships are starting to fall apart there is nothing that you can do that will keep from hurting the other person, however, ruining their reputation is definitely the wrong thing to do.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
10 Dec 11
It is such a sad thing that he has done this.I think perhaps he has done this out of spite. But either way he has caused a lot of pain and heartache. And it may be a decision that he will regret for the rest of his life. He has hurt her and perhaps ruined her career. It's sad that he made such a hasty decision that will have a great effect on her. It's bad enough if she did have an abortion to take a life but now she's got to handle all of the media along with it.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Dec 11
Does it matter why he did it? What if he did it to get peace with this part of his life?
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I did watched the video,thu he speaks (Mo) too soft and I can hardly understand his words.
It's hard to judge such a person.
Being a celebrity- he can accused of acting very good and innocent pertaining the crime.
But-as an individual person- he might be sincere within,...
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Abortion issue in the Philippine setting is a big subject to discuss. Abortion is strictly prohibited in the Philippines. That is why it is a big disgrace for those who are being involved with abortion. Celebrities like Rhian Ramos and Mo Twister has been the talk of the town about the issue of breaking up and abortion. They ended up so bad. Maybe Mo wants to clean himself on the issue between him and Rhian. I know Rhian is so hurt because of the many things happened.
@emjay86 (640)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I think MO just want to vent out his feelings. Yet apparently, the video got leaked without his consent. Or so he says. BUt nevertheless, damage has been done. Abortion is never a nice thing. But I think it is commonplace among celebs. I hope not.
@bashabasha (400)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
For me, that's not called love . Love is making someones happy that you make everything just to make someones happy . Love is not about revenge. If someone wants to break up with us because of out of love or any reason . We should accept that heartily because its their choice. If we love with a selfless heart without expectations ,we will surely be a happy individual. And we will never feel any disappointment in life.
Mo Twister is chosen a wrong decision in life. He made that because of out of his anger. I'm surely one day he will regret the things he made.
Don't make a worst things in life when we are angry because we will live a regretful for the rest of our lives.
If we don't happy . Don't make someone Unhappy, instead do everything to make someones happy and I'm surely we will live a happy individual.
@fsuma86 (364)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I was saddened when I heard the news because I kinda like Rhian Ramos. She really worked hard for her career. I just don't like Mo Twister! He's not capable of loving someone and I think that he is gay because of the words that comes out of his mouth in his shows.
