my girl friend is up set of me
By ahmed2114a1
@ahmed2114a1 (80)
11 responses
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
You better make up your mind ahmed! Your girlfriend should love you not by your money alone.
I think it's non-sense to be still in a relationship that's materially well loved by. Money should not be a gauge in loving
Well, it's your choice to still be in your girlfriend. Just teach her to love unconditional.
@campos22 (47)
• United States
19 Dec 11
I agree with Lhenni. She needs to be about you and not your money at least if you are really looking for love. Since I do not know the particulars of your situation I can't say what's best for you. I would consider what is it in life that you need and what is it that you simply want. Maybe sit with her and talk about this. You can give her money and play the game, just be aware that it is a game that you are playing. Good luck!
@liumirror (138)
• China
27 Dec 11
How long have you start your relationship?I mean as lover.Do you really know what her thought?If you don't I think you should care her more.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
after asking money from you what is it, friend.
If you would idadesh but if not and what will give.
do not understand why these things always want money.
why must everything boils down to money.
I do not know if I like you does not ring anymore.
is you know.
nice day!
@yaso4u (502)
• India
5 Jan 12
Hi ahmed,
There are two options for you to follow.
One is, If you feel she is true to you then try to arrange money to her because if you itself not helping her in this situation then who else. Helping her in time makes her proud about you and she will be more close than ever.
Second is, If you feel that she is not worth to get money from you then explain about your position, she will automatically moves away from you.
Take good decision. All the best. Have a nice day
@smadanmts (50)
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5 Jan 12
if she have a good character,please do not leave that her.but she have not good character and she's want only money from you.don't get upset about that her.please leave that girl.
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9 Dec 11
First & Far Most Sit Down yourself & Listen to what is being said & how its being told by your girlfriend to determine her interests & your interests in that relationship ... Couples are always working together, do things, & setting things where they belong.
The best to do if her interest is money then center the issue by communicating indirectly to aviod any kind of conflicts... the best way is to Text to each other first & speak the truth from there.. each one will determine as to where to continue speaking about the topic via online or in person. Now if she or yourself don't set the topic where it belongs then speak directly personally instead.... & put the topic in paper to have a better balance, clarity, & confidence as to what is true & not & where the money is going.... Now if the focus/idea/or paper is not mutually connected then ask professional advise to have a 3rd party guide you & your girlfriend
Take Care
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
9 Dec 11
Hi, Ahmed. If it's your girlfriend's necessity, then I cannot answer you on that. But if this is a usual thing, and she expects money from you now and then, I suggest you break free. There is no use living in a materialistic relationship. It might hurt for a while but you will realize that it happened for your good.
The rest is upto you.
@wulania (1524)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 11
you havent married so have no financial responbilty to your girl friend. financial responsibily just for couple who get married. if your girl freind dosnt respect you and justwa nt your money, i am absolutly sure she is not the right woman for you. what kind of mother she is when seha has baby then
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 11
Well ahmed, why does she wants some money from you? and because of those little money that she is ignoring you huh? There must be something going on here. Is she being too demanding without any good reason? If that's so, I would suggest you to ignore her for a while. Wait for some signs before you take your next action. But, if there is a good reason behind what she is doing, then probably you have to come out with some money _
@Lostchamberz (4)
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9 Dec 11
ahmad...if i've understood in the right sense...then your relationship is materialistic from her side...however it is immature to jump on conclusions without full information....you should talk to her to know if its an urgent need...else if it was all about the money...it's time you went for a search for true love buddy =)
