im taken forgranted

He is your boyfriend? Well then he is not worth it. A man will always have time for you..and watching tv is not an excuse even if he is tired. When he is tired, he would sleep not watch tv. You should not wait for him, instead find time to do things that will make you happy without him. I honestly used to be that way to my hubby, and he would in turn forget i am there - in the starting years together. But i got over it, went back to what i love - reading and arts..and now? he was the one crawling back to me.. lol partially kidding but its true. Now we make it a point not to take each other for granted. It creates a mess and too exhausting to mend..

It may seem to be a lame excuse. But does it take hours for you to be talking that is why you are told that he is tired this time around? I am asking this because I always spend lots of hours whenever I talk to my daughter. She only says bye bye when she will be having her dinner already or when there is something which she must be doing or if a visitor comes in...unexpectedly. Send him a text message telling him how you feel, after having been made to wait for his call and then, just been dropped like that as though a hot potato. It pays to get talking to clear things up. And yes, do not feel so down. Be with friends and have some happy moments with the family, if you prefer to be with the family. May things be straightened out...be happy, zelmarq.

SO sorry he being and a$$ no need for that if he dont want to talk he should say so Dont know if I would call him again let him do the next one

I am guessing this is your b/f doing this? I think it is a decision for you to make, is he really taking advantage on purpose or not..I know it's hard to determine, but I wouldn't be a door mat for someone I am in a relationship with, because trust me, it doesn't get better and if you get married, then the nightmare really begins. But if he is seriously having problems, then you can suggest he find help now, or it's over...

If is your long term partner then yes he might be taking you for granted or maybe he found someone else, the fact that he do rather watch a movie shows that there something wrong. And if the new guy maybe the poor guy just wanted to have fun and nothing serious or maybe he is scared.

If is your long term partner then yes he might be taking you for granted or maybe he found someone else, the fact that he do rather watch a movie shows that there something wrong. And if the new guy maybe the poor guy just wanted to have fun and nothing serious or maybe he is scared.

You were really taken for granted. Their is just too many reasons why he was not able to contact you. Maybe you should ask him to go to your house or you should meet up and discuss your relationship. It's hard to get hurt everyday so it's important to settle things and discuss what has gone wrong and make the move whether to continue or not. You deserved to be happy so don't waste your time on that.

If you feel in your heart that he is taking you for granted then he probably is. if you truly love someone then you will not make them feel forgranted. I mean it is given that sometimes it is not all lovey dovey and stuff but you know if he still cares and loves you even if sometimes he does not show it.

Yes it does sound like he's taking you for granted. So the next time he says he will be you online & he doesn't show up don't sit around and wait. Go out with friends or family or watch a movie, but whatever you do don't give him the satisfaction of sitting around waiting for him.

Sorry but you do this to yourself. You know he forgets about you as soon as he is gone. Then why sit and wait till he will call and spoil your own days/nights? Go start living, who knows if he finds the time to call you he will find out that your are not that pathetic person just sitting there and waiting for him and asking why he never called because he said he would blablabla. Might be you are important in his eyes but not the way you see it.

I guess we, women, always need more and more attention. It is frustrating when he would not answer the phone and prefer doing something else instead of spending time with us. But I think that you should think better if you are satisfied by the relationship or not. Do these things bother you so hard that you cannot bare them any longer? Are there more beautiful moments than bad ones?

There are millions types of person who prefer thousands types of intimate relationships. Maybe he is the not so committed type while you are the 24hours craving for his attention and love type. what to do with this relationship? I believe you know the answer. I myself would like to spend every minute possible with my girlfriend. Some think that we are being too close and doesn't mingle around with others. Who cares? as long as I have my babe around me. But, I'm not totally ignoring others, I do talk with them and hang a bit. XD