Mum disowned me.. where do I go from here

I don't know what is happen, my friend. That is why I can't comment anything negative in your part and in your Mother... There might be a reason why your mother acting like that. But remember mother is always a mother that never forget her child even if she felt very upsetting... Don't stop calling your mother. Your also a mother, and you know the feelings...of your mother.

I don't think your mum can disown you from what you said. I think she just got upset by what you said. You can try to call her and find out how she is doing or even apologize for what you did if it is necessary.

So you have no idea whatsoever, what she is upset about?

Mother was the greatest people in this world, she are the taugh, she are wisely, she are the patient, she are the everything.Even not all mother are like that, but mostly. When a mother do like what your mother have done. There are couple reason, whethe from you or from your mother.You the only one who know the reason.

Let her be if she doesn't want to communicate you cannot force her to.Sometimes when you step away from a situation it will resolve itself.Time heals all wound.It is hurtful because it is your mother but people are people mother or no mother.You cannot spend all your time beating up yourself.

sounds like you have a complicated relationship with your mother. you aren't alone there, unfortunately parents often have their own issues, and that can affect how they interact with their children. it sounds right to me that she didn't like the way you were your fathers favourite. but there could be many reasons for this, you and he may have been quite alike, and so got on well, and she may have seen you as being on his side when you should have been on hers. though to me it sounds like what has actually upset her is that what you sad that humiliated her might well have been the truth, and she didn't like it. so where does that leave you, do you want a dishonest relationship with your mother, where you can't say something thats true without her getting upset. my advice is just to leave it for a while, and just accept that she has her own problems that have made her react to you as she has, and its not anything you have done wrong. if you have a family member you still get on with and can keep in contact with, then maintain contact with them, but just leave your mother to have a sulk, as it seems to me that the more you try to fix it the less she will let you fix it. so maintain contact with another family member and let her get over her anger, as she will in the end, and just make sure you know that it wasn't you at fault, but her.

Hi Rana... I am sorry to hear this... No communication with Mom is a hard thing, even though she is the hardest Mom in the world... I think, if you do anything immediately to establish communication with her, it would be futile.. Something has happened and her mind is biased, rightly or wrongly (it doesn't matter, all matters is that she is biased). So let some time pass.. I am sure you'll come face to face at some point of time.. And her heart will yearn for her son... Let some time go buddy, time heals up things... Good Luck!! Take care..

I can certainly understand how you feel. It's normal to feel the way that you do, after your mom does something like this. I'm really sorry that you're in this situation. It's certainly not a pleasant situation. It's difficult to know what to do, in this sort of situation.

I am sorry to hear that you experienced this situation. Is this the first time she did that to you? or you both always on the bad term? I suggest you to talk it out to your siblings and father so that they know your problems. Good Luck!

I'm sorry to hear that but can you further explain the very reasons why will your mom disown you? I don't think that sending sms is just enough, talk to her personally or on the phone so that you can clear things out. I do hope your relationship will be smooth out and you both will be just fine.

If you have not done anything to her just do not be upset. You are caring you continue to show your love and devotion but do not be trobled for her behaviour. Let some time passby. If cannot force others to love ourselves. But let our love be unconditional. Let us be the fountain of love. Let love constantly flow from the depth of our heart even though this love is like a water that should flow in gutters and get soiled. When we get troubled that means we are bound. Let us be free and let others be free. Only thing that we should take care of is from our deliberate mind, let us not hurt anyone and let us love constantly

It's natural to feel angry and sad becuase you were blindsided. You didn't know exactly what is ahppenidng and why it has happened. I don't know why she disowned you without notice but it must be a pretty good reason for her. If you can, contract your other family members - like siblings and cousins or aunts and uncles. Since you indicate the reason, you can try to conform and get the whole picture and details in disowning you. Try to collect as much as information as you can and seek advice from others on how you can repair the relationship and interact with your mother.

Thats really sad. Maybe you could try to contact your other relatives, like siblings, aunt, or uncle and explain your situation to them. Who knows they could helps you resolving your problems or telling you what exactly the word you said that make her angry like that since you couldn't contacted your mum and ask her directly. I'm really hope you could find a solution for your problem Rana.

Unlucky on your news mate. I say you go back to where she lives, and explain it to her, if you did do anything ''humiliating'' you should tell her your sorry if you did anything, but can't remember, but if you didn't ask her why she disowned you, and if she would take you back with her rules.

try to give her a text message that she will surely read..Try to explain in text message and if she give a feedback then call her.