critic people...
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
December 10, 2011 10:19am CST
greetings to all mylot user,i just notice that there are many people out there who couldn't avoid to criticize a person,even though how better and good person are you there will be always be someone criticizing you.no matter how best are they its regardless to critic people.
Are you one of them?have you ever been criticize a person no matter how good and best is he/she?or are they insecure to them?
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7 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
um, i criticize people sometimes, but i always try to acknowledge a person's good attributes, whether they are physical-wise or personality-wise.
I'm guilty that I used to be one of those people who find it funny to make fun of people, but i only target those highly criticizing people, like that will make things even and return the balance LOL
but i'm more criticizing towards myself. I push myself to much sometimes, just to keep up with my own standards. this can be good, if it's in control. motivating yourself this way is helpful, but too much criticism towards ourselves will make us feel awful about ourselves.
those who criticize other people, are people trying to make up for their LOW SELF ESTEEM. It is a way for them to make themselves look better, not only in the eyes of other people, but also in their own eyes. to secure themselves in the thought that there are people out there worse than they are. petty way to make themselves happy. pathetic criticizers...
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
You'll always be criticized in everything you do and you have to accept that. If you don't, you'll have a hard time ignoring it. You can also take criticisms as positive, to improve yourself as a person because, eventhough there are useless criticisms, there are also useful ones you can look at from a different perspective.
@clearwater18 (695)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
We really can't avoid those kind of people. What we need to do is just to not mind them. I try to avoid criticizing other people because I too commit mistakes and if I would be in their position, I would also not want to be criticized. We should just try not to mind these types of people. Maybe they are just insecure.
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
I am not into criticizing people because I know that I also have a lot of faults. There are so many people who just love to make unwelcome comments about other people because they feel so insecure about themselves. If you have the confidence, you wouldn't care whatever anyone does with their lives or whatever possessions they own. I have observed many people criticizing others because of the feeling of envy or jealousy. Deep in their hearts they want to do the same but can't for reasons of their own. There is also what we call as constructive criticism which is advantageous because we are able to change for the better. This kind of criticism is often used at work to help other workers improve in their attitude and performance but some do not take this very well because they think too much of themselves. hence, it all depends on you own perception if the criticism is being done to hurt you or make you lose your confidence. It may be a way to remove the focus from their own ineptness or failure. Just watch out, otherwise,it may just affect you in a negative way; otherwise,just ignore them.
@kicysmile (213)
• China
11 Dec 11
hi aslish,I know many people do not like this,but i am not this kind of people,this phenomenon is abnormal,Do not take it to heart,just do well for ourselves.don't need fluence by somebody voice.happy everyday,my friend.