I'm Not Chinese Either
@frontvisions101 (16043)
Philippines
December 11, 2011 12:30am CST
Crazy thing happened the other day. I was riding the elevator with a Chinese couple when one of them started talking to me in Chinese.
Me: "No chinese, no chinese.."
Chinese: "You racist!"
Me: "Wha..? I meant I don't speak chinese!"
Chinese: "Then why didn't you just say 'I don't speak chinese' instead of 'No chinese?"
Me: *in my mind* Why didn't you just talk to me in english in the first place, you self-righteous SOB..
I've been mistaken as Japanese and Korean before because of my eyes, and now Chinese. Apparently, I'm missing Vietnamese, Manganese and Cheese.
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22 responses
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
12 Dec 11
Don't feel bad. I live in California and that happens a lot.
One time someone began to speak to me in Spanish, and this was before I really knew a lot of Spanish, and I had to tell the person that I really didn't know much Spanish, and they looked at me like I was an alien or something. It's like they were disgusted with me. Well, I thought to myself about these people, "This is the United States of America, learn English. People in this country speak English, why can't you learn it too? Why do I have to learn Spanish just to accommodate you?"
I didn't learn Spanish to accommodate people, I learned it because I wanted to learn how to speak it and because I wanted to learn it, not to do anyone any favors. Just because I am Caucasian doesn't mean that I know every single language that exist in the European Union. The only languages that I know are English, Spanish, Italian, and a little bit of French, and the only one that I really feel comfortable speaking is English.
People need to learn not to judge a book by it's cover.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
12 Dec 11
It has actually happened to many of my friends too. We've all had stories. That's the problem with living in the U.S. is that people love to a assume that because you look a certain way that you speak a certain language, and that isn't always true.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Yeah, I bet that, too. Although I'd still like to be seen as a Filipino, who I really am. Maybe if I brought a flag all the time they'd take a hint.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Yeah, I bet this happens to other people too. It's just something that doesn't happen everyday, though, and it's not the best experience, too.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
12 Dec 11
I know of a friend who's always mistaken for Chinese. People would talk to her in Mandarin, and she would just have a surprised look on her face.
It's funny that he thought of you as a racist by just the way you responded. I think it goes both ways though, as his initial perception of you.
Better be a cheese than manganese!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
I can't even imagine my face that time. I think it's stupid the people would just assume. Your friend should learn Mandarin, then. Maybe someone is offering her a million dollars already and she's been refusing it.
@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
That was funny :D Maybe you were thinking they don't know how to speak English that's why you said "No Chinese." I look like a Chinese also, now I know that if a Chinese asks me something in their language, I wouldn't answer "No chinese" which to them would mean you are a racist. Thanks!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Yep, lesson learned. No problem sharing this to you.
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 11
yeah..unless u ve said..No chinese....are allowed in this elevator..lol .that wouldve been somthing..
definitely racist.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
11 Dec 11
Funny experience. I live in taiwan and I recognize not a 100% but good enought to know who is from philipines, from indonesya, from vietnam. but, if u are white skin and small eyes , maybe your old relatives came from china, I have some relatives that were born in phylipines but they grand parents were from china.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
I don't really have white/yellowy skin. I have Filipino skin. They shouldn't just assume that everyone who has a small pair of eyes can speak Chinese.
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 11
yeah..thats what happen to some hawaiian ..or native american people in foreign countries..lol.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
12 Dec 11
Ha ha ha , Good morning frontvisions, yes you are right not everybody with white skin and small eyes speak mandarin. I would like to be confused with chinese in here , since many people recognize me for being a foreigner , I dont know them but , they know where I live and all , I dont like that, I have to be a good girl. Have a great day friend.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Weird and funny experienced which happened to me also.I do have a quite white skin and an eyes like Chinese.My happened in a grocery when a Chinese approached me and ask something in Chinese,maybe she is asking for help.I said I'm not a Chinese,she laugh and apologized.She ask again in english and there we understand and I helped her.Funny experience.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
It's great to know that you understood each other. Communication is important. I don't wanna be tagged as a racist because of some miscommunication.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Yeah, that's true. If you understand each other, in general, that's when you're more inclined on helping them. My point for this whole discussion, though, is my reputation. I just don't wanna be tagged as a racist because of some minor misunderstanding.
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 11
its like Keanu reeves being mistaken as a chinese guy somewhere..lol
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
26 Jan 12
The Chinese couple thought you were Chinese. They should have spoken to0 you in English and ask which nationality you are. If I see a person that looks Chinese because of their hair and eyes they could be Japanese, Korean or Vietnamese. My disabled son is in a class with a little girl with an English name. She looks like a Thai.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Yep. They should've checked first by speaking to me in english. Although chinese girls like me too. It's an advantage.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
12 Dec 11
Hi,i think the Chinese couple misunderstood you because of two reasons: first, since some historical reason and other reasons, there are some time Chinese are discriminated, just like in the past, some black people are treated unequally. Therefore, Some Chinese are a little sensitive. Secondly. i think you should use complete sentence: i don't speak Chinese. Because,some shorten sentences do make some misunderstanding to Chinese.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Well, that's how Chinese say it right? "No english, no english." It came as reflex to me, too. Maybe it's because of movies I've watched with Chinese people. Yeah, maybe they jumped to the conclusion that I'm a racist because of that fact.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
13 Dec 11
i learned that lesson young. we lived in a military town with a lot of koreans but still had chinese and japanese. in fact my cousin married some one japanese. now im really stupid with telling them apart and if you called anyone korean and they werent they would be so offended. i guess there was a social ladder i didnt know about it and korean was at the bottom so i was insulting them. i just gave up and hoped it would some how come up and i would find out lol
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Yep. That's the worst kind of insult, the one where you don't even know you're doing it.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
12 Dec 11
People might just don't understand your attitude and your tone. Maybe they just don't understand. You don't have to be mean, and they don't have to be mean to you either. The ultimate problem here, misunderstanding. That happen to human communication a lot. So, left it behind, and let it go.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Don't get me wrong, it's not the worst I've experienced. I just thought sharing it here would make a fun discussion. Yeah, when it comes to bad experiences, I'm a good "let-goer".
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Funny.....Even my sister living in japan and one time she rode a train going home and there was chinese there set with her.And the chinese keep talking to her,and my sister don't know what shes talking about..The chinese thought she was same with here chinese because of the eyes ....
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
She should learn how to speak in Chinese coz she's in China. That's what I like about Chinese people, they're very hospitable.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Oh, I misunderstood that. Japan, eh. The Anime capital.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
but she live in japan not china.the girl was also live in japan.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
It would have been worse if there are other people in the elevator. That Chinese needs to use his brain more, if you ask me.
@fullmoonyeah (127)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
That's a really weird thing. Maybe they have mistaken you as Chinese because of your eyes. But where in the place that happened sir?
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Yeah, I have small eyes. What's weird is, other asians living here also mistake me as one of them. This is stupid. This happened in an elevator.
@mgx682 (28)
• China
12 Dec 11
As a chinese I have to say sorry about this. In china, many children learn to study English in chinese pattern. In their understanding, "No chinese" may means "there is no chinese language in the world!". For somebody who can accurately understand English language, there is no misunderstanding. As for me, I am poor in English, but I am trying to improve myself.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Oh, this is enlightening. So I just said "There is no chinese language in the world." For a moment there, I thought I said "I don't speak to chinese people." So it's less harsh than what I had imagined.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
What got me thinking, though, is that's how Chinese people say it when they wanna say they don't speak english, right? "No english, no english." Kinda seem unfair, don't you think?
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
I don't wanna be called a racist, that's the thing. Good thing we were the only ones inside that elevator. It would have been embarrassing if there were other people around.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Hahaha, you made me laugh on this :P
Okay, people mistaken my daughter as Indian, due to her looks (profile)
Wait till you come to met Vietnamese one day....okay Cheese ,,,hehehe
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
This is just stupid. They shouldn't assume anything until they know they're totally right. It's not that big of a deal but it should still be done right.
@Robswife2006 (1208)
• United States
12 Dec 11
OMG that would be funny if it didn't really happen to you. It's sounds like a punch line from a joke. That's true though, if they knew how to speak English why didn't they just do so from the start? If I were visiting China I would try & speak their language or at least let them know right off that I don't speak Chinese.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
English is not even our native language. It's the national language, though. What makes me stupidly wonder is, he can speak fluent english, why didn't he just ask me the question in english. He's in a different country so he can't be too certain that he was talking to another chinese.
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 11
hahah lol...
yeah..they are the racist one..they assumed everyone is chinese.. without asking first to be polite..
if u look like a chinese person..then it wouldnt be rite to be called :racist" unless u look like westerner.
the most u can be called is "arrogant" for (if they thought u just pretended not to speak chinese.)..theyre the racist.. refusing to switch to another language if they intend to stay in other peoples country..
or...are u in a chinese country instead??? then u better learn some ..lolz
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Funny thing, though, whenever whites make black jokes, they're automatically tagged as racists. Yeah, they should ask in english first before assuming someone is chinese.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
12 Dec 11
LOL you are funny frontvisions...But I wonder why didn't they
approach you in english instead of the assumption that you
were other ethic language....
I don't blame you I would have gotten upset also not because
you looked otherwise but because to assume your were not English,
how dare they....enjoy your week,,,,,
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Yeah, bad experiences make good stories. I'm more concerned about being called a racist, though. No one wants to be a racist. Even racists, themselves, don't wanna be called racist.
@polaroidsredwine (509)
• United States
11 Dec 11
Geez, I wish I'd get mistaken for Chinese once in a while, because I am! Though my mixed heritage makes me look more Mexican, so you wouldn't believe the amount of people that come up to me babbling in Spanish and all I can muster is a flabbergasted, "Uh, no hablo mucho espanol?" and then they give me the stink-eye and walk away.
It's pretty awkward when people confuse you for a race you're not and start talking in the language. I always have that long moment of "how do I respond to you?" I can't imagine being in an elevator for the event, though - that's just like an extension to an already awkward situation.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Aw, you don't wanna offend mexicans. They're the worst people if offended, although they're pretty nice if you're on the good side. It's also a good thing that you know how to reject them in spanish. All I know in Chinese is their karate kick, ..and that still sucks too.