People tha you dont like

I have this previous boss (who's actually my first boss) that everyone hates. :) Our work relationship was as good as fine. He mandates well with a bit consideration of work delegation contingent to my capabilities knowing that, that was my first job. Yet time flies, that I have finally seen his nasty behavior towards his subordinates. Inconsiderate, unkind words, unprofessional acts, unnecessary moves. I have learned so much from this experience, even time came where we had confrontation regarding negative issues arising between the two of us. Well, that time happened where we spend 8 hours together (two together ALONE, YES!) at four corners of the room in awkward silence. Tittle-tattles, work unproductivity, clingy on co-workers - that's what he describes me during our talk. Well in fact, my heavy to light workloads became indeed NONE-AT-ALL! This lesson learned part of my life was really amazing, I surpassed, and to be honest, I miss our collaborative work. Now, he waves HI, HELLO, SMILE. In addition with this, on my second project, I hate everyone here, the negative issues/environment even without the presence of those people I hate. I have two-faced here. (MATURITY!!) To that person who everybody expect to be ON THEIR SIDE, attentive to their needs, HONEST are truthfully not on her body and soul. But being an ideally person who talks less (just being careful to people who shouldn't be trusted of telling HATREDS), I tend to show a happy person as if I have no complain, tend to show as if I dont know any wicked stuff they do but at the back of my mind face to face, I secretly hate her. PATIENCE is a VIRTUE. Sometimes, when you have nothing to rely on.. you have to work hard being the strongest person in the existence of this kind of people you badly hate. Instances like this normally happens, when you think of this you might say it's easy. But once you get through this spine in the chest, you will get to reflect genuine things.. the lessons, the experience, the suffering, the do's and dont's, and the importance of those true/real people around you.

I use to try to understand everyone in my workplace so that it'll be a good atmosphere to work on. But now...the ladies there are really annoying me. They are saying words behind my back, spreading out rumors and stuff. I guess the people that I don't like in the office, are those who don't have anything to do better than spread rumors.

Hi there Mmgonzales, I have worked with people that I don't like for some reason or another. I don't think that deeply into it. It's not a big deal to me. I'm at work to work and not make friends. Liking your co-workers is a great perk in any job but not necessary. I am friendly to all of them and treat them all the same. A person that I don't like on the job would never suspect it. I know this because I'm currently working with a girl that I really don't like much at all but she tells people that I'm her favorite co-worker. Key is not to gossip about your co-workers and just treat them all the same. We all have to be there. Getting along makes the job more pleasant than bickering and drama.

I cant say I was the best, especially in the later part of my career with the real estate business. I had this colleague. She was good in her work. But there was this need to be one up. I often had my ego entangled with her, because she would try to boss over me. I also had a bit of a complex everytime she found a fault in my work. But the main reason those faults cropped up was because I would be upset with her as right when I would be doing the work she would come and ask me something as if I were answerable to her. That was very annoying. She used to ridicule me about me not being married, and not having children. And she would also ask me to write my retirement savings on her child's name because I didnt have children. That hurt! She knew it hurt. But she enjoyed hurting because she envied me, and wanted to disturb me. Now, in retrospect, I think I could have told her that I plan to leave anything after my demise to children who dont have either parents, not to a child who has both her parents. And that would be so noble of me. She would have shut up. Instead I said I dont like your child - your child is not good looking enough. She got to behave like a martyr, and the whole world was like - all children are beautiful, how can you say that blah blah. All of them had second children after that. None of them adopted that child or even gave anything valuable to this colleague's child. But I was expected to! One of my colleagues even went so far as saying that she would hit me if I wont adopt. Boo! I developed an intense repulsion towards those girls. As to revenge, I will leave it to god. Every dog has its day. Some day soon, I will be a dog too. :)

hello, Yeah, you are honestly correct and what you just stated is true. Many people are not sensitive in terms of their environment. They think they are too rich for us that we cannot reach them at all. I dont like those people who think they are the boss, bully and think they know everything because I am the type of person who let them do first. I learned a lot to them because of the situation that I cant handle sometimes, that is why I just dont pay them attention. Well, as this time I dont have the same scenario like what I am having now. there is not worst than this time.

Hello mmgonzales, I had an ex boss which was so rude and used to shout on people when someone could not accomplish the target.I used to neglect him most of the time but i could not as i had to meet him at least once in a day. But now no more he is my boss and now i am bit relaxed as now i have a good boss who understands things better than the previous boss.

I don't like bossy people. My lady boss is a bossy people. She likes to command me to do things that she likes. I don't like her at all. So now I am doing flexible job whereby I get my own time to do my own things and earn money.

Many years ago, I worked with this girl who always found fault in whatever any of the co-workers did. She never smiled, and was just really mean spirited. It was hard working with her. She was a "tattle tale" too, and if you did something that wasn't "just right" you better not turn your back. I handled it by keeping to myself. I would let what she did just "slide off my back." I left that company many years ago, but while I was there just decided to get along with her the best I could, and sometimes that is all we can do.

Yes! There are some characters in my office with whom i don't want to work at all.. I'm trying for a good job.. My boss and his wife are very commercial mentality.. They squeeze us a lot and put work load. My boss earning a lot, but he is not giving us proper salary.. I want to teach him a lesson. What ever it may be i want to leave the present job and join some other.. Then he will come to know my hard dedicated work.