Companion and best friend!
By lovetmyou
@lovetmyou (111)
Philippines
December 11, 2011 5:00am CST
When your companion or your best friend lie to you, who will you for give and trust first? How long will it take to trust them with your life again? What is your first reaction? would you allow your companion or bf to cuddle with you late on that same night? What is your thought on this?
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5 responses
@mysticeyes17 (33)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
sometimes it depends on the situation.but for me,if i were on that position,i will forgive him/her but i cannot give my trust to him/her 100% anymore.It's hard to trust somebody again if he/she made a mistake once.once is enough.
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Well I would have to think about it for a long time. It happened to me before and it did not work. Most of the time that person always trying to please you in ways not been his/hers self. Because of guilt. Given my heart back to cheater. Being friends Maybe with some limited to this friendship. Special if you two had lots of time to talk before things happen.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
13 Dec 11
I has been not fooled or lied by my friends not yet. This is because we don't have any secrets between us. We used to share everything with what we have. So there comes no need of quarrels and other malpractices.
Did any of your true friends fooled you ?
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Keep then and enjoy your friends, maybe you just don't know yet. Well! The saying is what you don't know will not hurt you. Being a people person I see some are so in love tell they over look small things as we call them. Keep your friendship on that level. This kind of friendship don't come by every day. Who! About friends fooling me. This is the story. Two ladies very close friends, one of them thought when her b/f was around her. Her g/f would always wanted to look extra cute. You see, this girl keep it up tell she was together with him. And this go all the time. How do I know it, just say my job is working with people. Some call it gossiping, sharing and even call it Ministering to the Soul. Me! been fooled so many times tell now, I think I need help from a high power to recover from my selfish ways.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
11 Dec 11
unfortunately I think trust is one of those things that once it is gone it is gone forever, it isn't something you can control, it is an emotion and emotions control us, we can forgive a little but there will always be a little doubt there even if it is in your subconsious.
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Once I thought trust was the way to live. Boy was I so stupid to the way of life, were we live. Even with the one you in love with. Well they say you are a country boy, you need to learn the score of things. But I see now you better sleep with one eye open, even thin someone will get to you. When I live in the usa and in the squatters area of Asia country were that is the way to go. See It's every were. With all this I love doing God work, With the Power of God guiding. Yes! I try to trust with all my heart, but I fine my self with doubts sometimes. Boy I don't like that feeling. I know Only God can change me. That I know!
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Trust issues are very complicated and subjective to people who are involve.
It depends on you and I couldn't judge it myself. In cases like these, we need to see the truth and our priorities. Expect that our mind and heart will surely get in trouble.If your love of your companion is bigger than your love for yourself or if you love yourself over other people (bf and friend) are light questions only but what we need to see that once trust is broken it takes a time to heal but it won't be like before.Only a forgetful heart can mend a broken trust.
I will surely get mad and hate them. And they owe me an apology and explanation. Moreover, I will surely not allow myself to be cuddled on the same night. Honestly I felt gross to see myself in that kind of situation..
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Yes! It's every complicated and hard to understand, because I used to live in apartment. My next door neighbor would have a miss understanding and that same night they as it was there honey moon and the next day it was as nothing happen with all smile together. I know it wrong of me, but it take sometimes, 1-2 day to be happy again with that person. Honestly I would keep an eve on the character of that person for sometimes. And if day do it the second time it over with no excuse. Case close!
@mel0482 (283)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
We can anytime always give forgiveness to those people who wronged us, but like it's commonly explained that after those hurtful or painful moment that you've been through, you will truly find hard to trust that same people again in your life.
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Trust! maybe if I was in love. All depend on how deep I am hurting. After a long time if Mr/miss right don't come along. You see I don't like to be lonely. Selfish maybe.
