Why can't I have a broken heart?

You have become so comfortable with her around that you never ever thought that she will one day disappear from your life. You only realized how much she mattered to you when she was no longer around. But I am wondering why you don't have a broken heart? Maybe you just didn't love her at all or the circumstances haven't been fully felt as of yet? Maybe deep in your heart you really wished her gone? While I do not want to be presumptuous, you might still be wishing and hoping for that special someone that you can spend your life with? I am sure she is still thinking about you because it is often more difficult for women to move on from a relationship not unless she has found the right person to love.

It's okay to have a broken heart, and it's okay to grieve about the break-up, but eventually, you will have to move on from that person. It can be hard, and it is hard, but you can do it, and you will.

As a woman, I must admit that I'm glad that your girlfriend got a backbone and left, but, at the same time, I'm sorry you have a broken heart. Remember, as I have learned, that there are many fish in the sea. Just try to treat your next lady better.

maybe you are just not that ready for such emotional relationship. I am 21 years old and I had never had my heart broken. I know it sounds weird or something but the reason is I don't open up quickly. And if I do let my guard down, I still put aside a part of me for myself.

I can relate to your situation right now. I am broken heart too. My girl is right now is so lost. She always get mad at me. She always angry to me i don't know why. I told her that if she likes me to stay to her life but she tells me that, yes she likes me, she stays in me. But right now shes angry to me. She always mad at me. I dont know what to do. I dont know what to say. I only knows how to love her so much. Be strong my friend.

should not hurt their heart. Do you know how much it hurts when the nearest you forget your birthday. You know how it felt then. once asked her how she once was hurt if they would not do so. ask why you can not have one heartbroken because he was afraid to love again because it is afraid of being deceived, it is afraid of you, and dare not let you back inside. To some women are much stronger than men and are struggling with vschko to end. story of love always hurts no matter what the f. nice day.

Well, you never really know what you have until its gone. For me, my story of a broken love is happening now. I've fallen for this guy who is already taken. And I now for a fact that it could never be us. And what sucks the most is that I know he feels the same way.

We will get to know the worth and value of someone once we lost. I hope you will get to find her and make her understand and believed that you want her more than anything.

Well bro its all your fault You were a lucky guy, reading your discussion I almost wept out as my girlfriend is not that caring I hope I have such a loving partner as yours.

I actually think we, women are weak. It's the man who are stronger and doesn't even care when they hurt women's feelings. But life has to go on for us, even though it breaks us we have to face the world again and accept that sometimes nothing last forever. My story is not so good at this time. But I;m finding ways on how to get out of this painful situation.

Reading your post, I see that you know exactly how you hurt your girlfriend. It looks to me as though you were testing the strength of her feelings, almost daring her to leave. That is a form of insecurity, you were saying (in effect) "It's going to be hard to love me, I'm not going to treat you well" and then waiting to see if she would stay through all the neglect. Here's the thing: A relationship that lasts does so because both people have respect for each other's feelings. You found that out the hard way- you lost her respect by not showing her any. A woman will put up with a bit of random disrespect here and there but it gets old very quickly. If your girlfriend has a solid sense of self, she has realized that her worth as a person will be better recognized and valued with a different guy. So a bit of advice for you, my single friend, the next girl will disappear the same way unless you develop some respect for her and make her see you as someone she likes being with. Treat your woman with the respect she deserves.

Hello,i'm a chinese,i moving in it,you are happiness that have a girl which is beautiful and love you deeply and really.i admire you,you should not let she alone and leaved you,it difficult to find such a girl for you even everybody in the furture.i'm a single body now,i love a beautiful girl and send some mensages yo her,but she seldom reply me,it make me sadly,flatly and boring now,i don't know what i can do next,i afarid of she has her lover,can you share your views for me,thank you,i expect you can find another girl which you really love```````