I can't enjoy life at the moment

@syoti20 (5292)
Philippines
December 11, 2011 11:27pm CST
I can really feel the pain what my big brother going thru right now. I can sense he isn't happy at all for almost a week now. Because of what happen to his best friend. Who are in the hospital for Scrotal Mass concern. I really like to help but how?
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11 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
28 Dec 11
If u can't help, u can only be there for him. Emotional support way surpasses physical support. That's the most important thing. U need not have to suffer along with him, but one thing u have to do is to give him hope, make him feel that his best friend would be fine. U have to pull him out of the slumps and not join him in it. If u fail to do that, it's gonna make everybody feel worse than before
• Mexico
17 Dec 11
Hi syoti: I understand you don't have the power to change things but if you are near your brother, you listen to him and make him notice that you care for him, that's something very important to make him feel that he is not alone and that there are people near him he can count with them. ALVARO
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
13 Dec 11
It is normal to share the deepest feelings of our dear ones, and feeling happy for them, and with them when something good happens, and, on the other hand, like in this situation, have feelings of sorrow and impotence, when they are suffering or going throug hard times. What you can do, is supporting him, and maybe, trying to getting out of this thoughts, maybe getting out to do something togheter, having a nice chat on other topics, and, supporting his friend in this situation too.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
13 Dec 11
The best thing you can do for him is just be there for hi when he needs you. Anything else would not be a good thing. People have to deal with certain feelings on their own. So, just let him know you are there for him.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
13 Dec 11
When someone you love isn't feeling good, you feel bad too I know. I really don't know what your brother is going through right now but I would suggest you to be with him no matter what and always support him. Couple of weeks ago I was going through a dark phase too and I was so glad that my sister was always there listening to my problems and supporting me. It does feel nice to know there is someone who'll always have your back.
@kicysmile (213)
• China
17 Dec 11
hi my friend,life is not perfect,but you work out the quicks,may be there are miracles,to be confident.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
12 Dec 11
Be supportive, optimistic and say some prayers for him and also for his friend.. God loves all..
@savypat (20216)
• United States
12 Dec 11
There are many sorrows in life that we have no control over, when faced with these or helping others faced witn them it is best to just listen and be there for them. Sometimes research of the problem can bring a new point of view to the situation but often there is just nothing you or anyone can do. Support each other.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 11
Be supportive and give some motivate words to him. DOn't forget to pray for him and his friend as well. All of you need to be strong to get through the obstacles. hope his best friend get well soon.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
12 Dec 11
important thing is that you want to help but sometimes a kind word one shoulder may be sufficient. because I understand he has lost the most and best friend from this terrible pain. because if he lost a brother or sister, and now can not survive. just be with him in these difficult days it will give him blend and faith that you really have to fight. so you can help him just as he hold his hand or just sitting next to him and talk. I wish you success and hope what I told you to help you. nice day!
@rusale (647)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Hello syoti. You can pray for him. Ask God's guidance. You should also visit him in the hospital, bring him some gifts. You need to show up in there every day if possible. I know what you feel right now. This are just challenges in life. You need to be strong.