Do you still feel hurt when you meet your ex with someone else?

haha, its indeed crazy vi, but those thoughts didn't come to my mind, hehe memories of the past just came to me but i never wish to be back with them again...haha coz i think no one can ever make me happy and give the kind of life that i have now except my husband... hehe

Haha, well good things never last as they say, there are really things we have shared with our ex that somehow makes us smile they we know deep inside of us that we already loved someone new and spend the rest of our lives with them. Having expectations of wanting your ex again and make love with them again, that's the craziest thing one have to do when they are already in another relationship specially when they are married. too bad!

woah good for you that you and your ex relationship is still good. and you have a great husband to be with since it makes you feel that way. aww I am so envious. LOL when the memory of the past came to you, what kind memory was that? bad or good?

I don't have grudges. Feelings. Yeah of course its not going to go away. if you spend 10 years of your life together. Theirs just some bonds that can't be broken. And of course you can also remember what is the feeling holding her hands when you saw them together right?

yes, it is hard to see the one you've loved holding hands with other guy in front of you. Ten years is such a long time and I wonder what makes you both live separately? I bet it's too hard if you both have feelings in the present time but the girl was already a mother. I wonder, did she ever loved the guy who's with her right now?

I thing she does. Although sometimes if we talk its still a know him situation even though they are already two years together. And the worse part in my side is that its hobbies and likes are almost the same as mine. We even have a sweater that is the same color and brand. lols. The reason I guess is that she is getting old and want to have a baby. While me I prefer to be financially stable first before I want to have a family and I guess ten years of waiting and nothing has improved in my part. that's why. Its a mutual separation. I guess if I have a stable job then I guess its a different story.

You kick his what? but I guess your the one that is hurting right? lols. love is like coffee you like it hot but same time you slowly sip it because you don't want be scald. lols. If you remember those happy moments then I guess you still miss him. lols. but that's life. Your feet is kicking him but your hand is holding him. lols.

So, you enjoyed your life at it's maximum right ?

Its depends if you brake-up because of some negative reasons. But After ten years you two just realize that because of financial reasons or some ambitions you can't seem to achieve its better that you go with your own ways. The feelings is still their. And I guess its the same with her. because if we talk she always say that her new bf is just like me. What I like, my hobbies, etc. are also the same with her new bf.

I guess that's life. How I wish I can remove this feelings. Sometimes we can't mix feeling with reality. Feeling don't understand financial situation. feelings don't understand ambition. And feeling does not understand age.

I guess that's what we called sourgrapping in a kind way. lols. But the fact remain that she already move on while I stuck alone. lols. But I guess I'm not that lucky. Beside right now I don't have a job for four years now. I guess that's one reason also that I'm behind right now.

Yeah. But that's the sad part of living and that is life is just not fair at all. But I guess we must be happy on what our partner achieve rather than pity what we failed. Especially when we feel that we deserve more than our partner or ex partner.